Struggling with self pleasure, I don't have access to toys

Hi guest, when you masturbate how do you actually do it? Explain in as much detail as possible so I can get an idea if your doing anything wrong or not just getting in the mood enough or hitting the right spot.

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Hi, I’m not too sure if I’m doing it right. First of all I get myself is the mood and play with myself and read or watch some erotic stuff making myself very wet. Then I use circle motions on my clit constantly I then insert my fingers or an object inside sliding it in and out it feels nice but nothing amazing I start breathing heavy and then my legs tense up and then the sensation just goes. What am I doing wrong how can I make myself cum?
Thank you for your help.

It sounds to me that you are doing just fine by what you have said.
Orgasms can be different for everyone, some have mind blowing bed shaking ones while others just feel a slight release of pleasure and muscles tensing up so by what you say about your legs tense up I would say that is you reaching orgasm, just like not every female has massive ground shaking orgasms not every female is able to ejaculate (squirt) and if they can it takes a lot of practice to get right.
The inside the vagina actually has very few nerve receptors so that's probably why you feel very little from using something small like a makeup brush, the most sensitive spot inside the vagina it's self is the gspot, not every female can find there's but it is there around 2 knuckles deep on the front wall of the vagina if you slide your fingers (normally best with 2) in and as you do feel along the front wall sort of behind the pubic bone you should feel a small area that has a different texture an that the gspot. Start like you normally do by getting yourself turned on and while rubbing your clit insert 2 fingers and make a come here motion so your stroking your gspot.
The main thing about masturbation is to be relaxed and just let your body go and don't hold back and don't be afraid to try different things, try it in the bath or shower, while reading an erotic story just let your fingers play and your imagination wander an think it's someone else's doing it from the story your reading, there is no limits to what you do to masturbate it's about experimenting to find what feels best for you.
If you have any more questions feel free to ask and I'll try to answer hhem for you.

Thank you so so much for your fast response. I will deffo try out all of the tips you have suggested. Another question though what other household objects could I use to pleasure myself ? I don’t have a detachable shower faucet or an electric toothbrush

Have you ever tried laying back in the bath with your legs bent up or feet against the wall and just letting the water from the faucet run fast over your labia an clit as a lot of girls say that works or some say a hex bug toy is the next best thing to a vibrator when held on the clit, have you ever tried something thicker than a makeup brush handle as a lot of females say the thicker the penis the more pleasure you feel, try a carrot but make sure it's clean and wrap it in cling wrap or what ever you know it by. Masturbation is about experimentation and finding what feels good for you just make sure what ever you use is washed before and after use and feel free to ask any more questions you have and I'll try to get back to you ASAP.

Yh I’ve tried the bath thing many times I’m bored of it now to be honest. The makeup brush is rather thick I have got bigger ones however idk if they will fit so I’m scared to try them out. I’m also not so comfortable with trying food items unfortunately. Thanks for all your help though I might give something bigger a go with some lubrication I guess. Thanks ever so much I really appreciate all the advice.

If you want any more advice or have any other questions feel free to ask and just remember the vagina entrance will stretch enough to deliver a baby just start slowly with one finger and as you get more turned on try two an maybe three later, just go at your own speed have fun and experiment as that's what masturbation is about getting to know your own body also some girls like to use ice indirectly to the clit or around the entrance.

I use a sharpie.