hey m 18 nd my gf is 16..yesterday we decided to have sex....we both were virgins before it was our first time ...but there was a problem the penis was not going into the vagina properly it was like so tight nd my gf said that she had never tried fingering or other toys before..everytime i tried to put my penis into the vagina it goes half into the vagina nd suddenly came out this is wat was happening nd there was no bleeding at all but she was feeling pain...nd there wasnt any kind of nervousness... now the questions stands are have we lost our virginity??? is she was a virgin coz there wasnt any bleeding although my penis was going half into the vagina??? plzz help me m little worried how we gonna figure it out..m waiting for suggestions...thnx
Hi Peter,
Neither of you are virgins. Penis into vagina means lost virginity.
Women don't always bleed their first time. She may bleed later on though.
It will take her some time to "loosen up." You're going to need to make sure she is very "wet" or use some lube. Then, take your time for her vagina to adjust. It can still be uncomfortable for her. Don't rush.
Hope it helps.
hey thnx for ur help...but how come its possible there was no bleeding does it mean she was not a virgin before ?????but the vagina was so tight it was hard to penetrate my penis...nd after having sex one day later she tells me that she's having a little headache nd pain in her legs but she's not feeling any kind of vaginal pain? ...so wat i am asking is she was a virgin before or i am his first guy?
Peter, not all women bleed their first time. That is one of the biggest myths around. She may bleed the next time, or after that, or never.
The only way to know if she is a virgin is to ask her.
The headache and pain in her legs may/may not be related.
The only way to know if she is a virgin is to ask her.
The headache and pain in her legs may/may not be related.