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i'm 21 and i want to lose my virginty to my boyfriend and i want to know what advice you have for me to make it as painfree and pleasurable, we've tried before but it hurts too much so we stopped
Hi,

is he a virgin too? This would make things more comfortable for the both of you. If not, hopefully he is an understanding b/freind to your needs.
Tips? First and foremost..use a condom!!! No doubt about that whatsoever ok? STD' s seem to be out there on a mission to get us!
Secondly, you might find ome soreness as the first time breaks your hymen if trying already hasn't! This is normal and it would bleed aswell.
I suppose, just take your time and do what feels natural.
Make sure you do this for the right reasons girl!
Best Wishes
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Hey guys! The stuff you've written is well-known to every schoolgirl... What's needed is a more specific advice on what to do and what not to do - say - is it a good idea to have a relaxation bath, to take anaesthetics, etc.. What's the statistics - what percentage of virginity loss cases is bloodless? Is the pain really acute, or is it possible to do without it, at all? Just practical stuff, not the generalizations like 'use a condom' or 'do it for good reasons girl'....
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Well I heard from a guy friend that a friend of his told him to bite a girls ear at the moment of penetration if she's a virgin. It's supposed to distract her from what other pain she might feel... Don't ask me if this really works, since I'm still a virgin I have no idea.
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