I am 22 years old. Iv bin with my boyfreind on and off since we were 15...but weeve bin steady for 3years, i love him alot his my best freind. I had a misscaridge ova a year ago and i still think about it everyday! I was so shocked when i fount out i was pregnant that i cried for days my boyfreind however was over the moon. a week after i fount out n with my boyfreind being so happy n supportive i began to feel the same...but afew weeks afta that i had a misscaridge. ever since then iv always wanted my baby back! a part of me feels like i am mento have one. None of my freinds have kids but i don't care about clubbing or girls holidays anymore. my bf has a fulltime job and i work sumtymz. but i dnt wna have a baby and regret it after. i keep thinking do i want a baby jus because I lost one. so its stopping me from becoming pregnant again. my mum didnt hav eme til later on in her life and ikno she was dissapointed wen i got pregnant even tho i was 20 well ova the legal age lol...im scared she's turn on me if i was to do it again. but i really love my boyfreind i wna hava family with him but i dont know when the ryt tym is. i think aabouy this everyday n everyday it seems to be on my mind more n more i feel lyk im goin mad thinking about it all the tym!
Dear Shyanne
Sorry to hear about miscarriage.......... I know that hurts a lot and even more emotionally. It's ok to think in terms of having a baby. Talk about plans with your bf and then plan your future - finances, home, insurance, medical expenses and the burden of caring for a little bundle of joy and the amount of time you may need to spend off work. It may take a little time to plan, but do it wisely
Good luck :)
Aushi