Too much anal sex?

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I've been having anul sex for a year and a half now and the first year I was always tight but now it seems that if my ass is wet enough it fells as if I'm loose I love anul sex as does my nobly friend but it isn't feeling good anymore because of this I even tried waiting a week to see if I would be tight again and it worked but then I would get wet enough and I wouldnt feel any pleasure, our first time was a spur of the moment thing and he wasn't gentle I was in pain the whole time but after that, all the other time were fantastic so if anyone can help me, please do!  

My boyfriend and I had anal sex for the first time lastnight. It hurt at first but once it was in, it blew my mind how good it was. I wouldn't mind doing it again.

I've never heard of anything like too little anal sex PLUS you can't get pregnant (unless you are really careless) ... a rule of thumb, if you take it in the bum, you won't be a mum!

You might want to abstain from anal for a day or two for yourself & get a vibrator/dildo in order to give him the great feel of what it's like --- that's trading roles of giving & receiving anal sex. Another idea: make a "deal" never to do "it" twice or perhaps three times exactly the same way (i.e. anal with you on your back versus anal with you on your tummy, anal you do him, anal he does you ... just not exactly the same way three times in a row. People thrive on variety & you might as well thrive together! As long as you're enjoying things doen there, enemas are also good "sport" instead of or before other forms of enjoying life's pleasures & treasures together.

Right on. You have "come" into the most natural (if some people think it's un-natural, that's TheIR problem not yours) birth control of all. Best wishes & happy landings! Keep UP the good work!

My wife and I tried anal sex about 10 years ago and loved it!

Now it is  the main form of sex that we have. We both love it. You know the rules about real estate- location- location- location?Well, the three rules about anal sex are-lubrication-lubrication-lubrication! A butt does not have the same lubricating glands as a vagina. This lube rule is true for women and men.

Start slow and some one  should stimulate the clit (husband , wife  or friend). Woman often require it whether vaginal or anal. Remember the point is to have pleasure!

About male anal penitration, it will not turn him gay! It may give him hot orgasms. Remember lube and start slow! Also, stimulate his penis while you fill him. Toys can help- the husband requires it and it can also help the wife by filling her vagina during anal.

Most of all have fun (and hot sex!).

Lube-Lube-Lube

Try the spooning postion while having anal sex with your partner this can last up to hours, have her lay on her side & have her leg up. Take your time intering make sure she is relaxed she will recieve you better,  have her or you masterbate her do not let her orgasam let it build up or use a vibrator and use plenty of lube. The object is to orgasm together. Trust me she will love this and it will have her cumming back for seconds.

Man iam black male black women don't want to do that I done it once an I was hooked

Hi, I have two question for you. Ok, for both of these questions the scenario is that both participants are disease free. So, the first one is when you said you'd recommend the guy urinating to remove unwanted bacteria from the uretha, wouldn't ejaculating semen take care of the unwanted bacteria, and remove it from the uretha? Second one, should an enema be used before anal sex or not? I've been trying to figure this one out for a long time. I've been getting mixed answers from multiple websites as well. Some say you should to be extra clean and get rid of the fecal matter, but then some say that you shouldn't because it could wash out the necessary bacteria in the rectum. So, I want to know the real answer. Should an enema be used before anal sex or not? Also, I plan on using water if an enema should be used, and I want to know if an enema should be used every time before anal sex.

Right on. A sure way not to get pregnant!

Grace Brazil: I lost my husband of sixteen years. I miss him, I miss the sex, and most of all I miss anal sex. About five months ago I met a nice man my age. (45) and we have started making love almost on every date. However through conversation he has said his wife never wanted or allowed him to have anal sex. He now feels it is wrong and will not even try it. Then I happen to meet a much younger man.. college age and he came on to me and I let him. He loves to engage in anal sex and he gives me climax after climax ... He is too young to get serious with and my bot-friend don't like anal sex... I love one and love sex with the other... I need the feel of a really hard penis in my rectum to get me off. You wives that have husbands that love oral sex.. are so blessed... I'll work it out even if have to start over with a new boy friend. ..

Wow! I had no idea there were other couples out there like us. Well, sort of. I've always loved anal sex--the first time I had it, I was 15 with my girlfriend (she hated it; total disaster). Then I got married, etc., etc., etc., and it took 15 years of going veeeery slowly to introduce my wife to the idea of anal. For one whole year, it was just lightly stroking her anus with my finger until she would be squirming and shoving her ass toward me. Then it was slight insertion with a finger, then rimming, and a few times with a toy. Over the years, we did it a few times, and I LOVED those days, but she seemed like she could take it or leave it. Then about six months ago, for some reason she was in the mood and told me to get the lube, and she had an amazing, body-shaking orgasm with me buried in her ass. The next night she wanted it again. Then again two days later. "Anal is my new thing," she said, and I think in some ways now she almost prefers anal to vaginal sex. As a confirmed ass man, I think this is great! But I will say, her pleasure was always a must. If I thought for one second she didn't really like it, I would never get near her ass again. And even though it sounds corny, I did loads of research over the years on how to give anal pleasure and stimulation. Everything they say is true: go slow, make her comfortable, let her trust you, give her control, and lube, lube, lube. Saliva is our preferred lube, and I know a lot of guys probably find that gross, but I feel like it brings us closer to together and actually helps her relax, like, "Surely I have nothing to be embarrassed about if he's willing to lick my ass until I'm moaning." It can take a long time even now, after having anal several times a week for months, to get her totally relaxed and ready. But once she is, then it's off to the races: she can take a hard ass f*****g and absolutely love it, until she's screaming into the pillow and thrusting back against me. Sometimes I cum in her ass; sometimes on her ass. And, afterward, I often make sure to clean up carefully (although there's never any of THAT kind of mess--she doesn't use enemas, but she must just be naturally very clean) and then f**k her or give her oral vaginally--although like I said, lots of times lately I suspect she'd be just as happy if I would roll her over again and go for another round of anal. But guys, here's my final word on this: if you want great anal sex with your girlfriend or wife, it means acting like a real man and caring about your partner's pleasure in a very deep, very real way. It means being sexually assertive, not timid and desperate, but also very caring and tuned in and gentle. And PAY ATTENTION to her cues. Don't be a drunk as****e. If you're doing it right, you'll know she's aching for it when she arches her back and serves up her ass to you like a Thanksgiving turkey.

I'm so happy to read about other women that can get off to such a high degree of satisfaction with / by anal sex. I love it and can put it right up there with oral sex. I can reach a climax by either method. When I feel my partner start to come while I'm giving him oral sex it is so stimulating to me I can also reach a climax. The same thing happens with I know and feel my partner reach full erection just a few second before he climaxes in my anal chamber. I love it so much I blast off with him. The climax I have by anal sex are near explosive. I love it.. nothing else like it. but like the man said Guys be caring and easy going in the long run it will be well worth your time and effort Grace

You are the first female I have heard say that. I think it's great. I was always able to climax along with my wife as she came while I was licking her. In fact I used that to get around the premature ejaculation problem. I would eat her until we both came then I could go inside and last long enough for an amazing second climax for both of us.

Sadly, no anal though, she didn't even want to try.

I notice that my husband is trying to have anal sex ...but I'm so afraid...I enjoy the finger very much ... but I'm not sure about his penis in my ass...I really want to try it!!! specially double using a cockring ...we are married for 20 years, he was my first and only..I want to try something new I know he's ready, and I also know he really want to... but I don't want him to loose respect for me because I'm doing this things...I need some advise.