Too much anal sex?

I had the same problem when I tried many year ago...I really wanted it, but it hurt too bad. I discovered that if you get a butt plug, lube it up well, put it in before bed with a thong, and sleep that way for a few nights, then try anal, it will help. At least, it helped me. Now I can't get enough of my husband's penis up my ass...we do that almost exclusively now. Lots and lots of lube and going slow is the key. I've found I still have that indescribable pain if he gets over excited and goes in too fast. But once he's comfortably in, he can pound my ass like there's no tomorrow, and I LOVE it! Good luck!

My wife let me in the backdoor one time and it was the greatest pleasure I've ever had. It didn't cause her pain as we lubed up, but she didn't get off. Now, she won't let me go back again, and thinks it's gross. A ton of my friends are getting their wives to do anal and both parties prefer over vaginal. I feel left out, I love my wife, but crave her ass, and don't want to miss out on something great. How do I convince her to try again, as it sounds like she could benefit as much as me.

I was hoping someone here could answer a question for me?  Awhile ago, I had this GF who loved anal.  More often than not, when she came there was a clear fluid that came out of her ass when I would pull-out.  And there would be a lot of it.  We just chalked it up to "ass-cum".  Does anyone know what this actually is?

Sorry, I've never seen or heard of such a thing.

A lot of guys will enjoy having their prostate massaged.
It's like trying to rub his penis from inside his anus.
A good opportunity to try it is during fellatio and see what reaction you get.
I am not gay, but enjoy my wife occasionally massaging my prostate during oral sex.

sounds good to me love. my hubby loves it too.. it took a while hes 10 in butt lol its great. im a little in woa though. he asked me that he wants a penis in his butt too Samatha

Wow. Up until a few years ago I never had anal until my wife suggested it to me. A former lover of hers had introduced it to her and while she didn't fall in love with it she was not averse to it. We did it occasionally but was no big thing. I was not particulary crazy about it but did enjoy it. In the last year or so however we have gotten to the point where we prefer it over vaginal sex. It got to the point where I asked my wife to clarify when we have sex is it understood that it is going to be anal and she agreed. We rarely have vaginal sex now and it is only "by special request". She is unable to cum either vaginally or anally (only orally) but comes a lot closer with anal and the sex is way more intense. I used a condom originally but stopped doing so and we both much prefer it "au naturel". I really love the tightness of anal and the freedom of not having to use a condom. I can't even fantasize about being with another woman and having vaginal sex, only anal. When my wife fantasizes about me with other women she fantasize about me going anal on them too!!

i have read your words and its like you are taking about me and my GF but we are still in the position of she got hurt a bit and we decided not do it again biut i still want it so bad and want to find the way how can i make her enjoy it,, i simply want her to orgasim from her butt caue till now we cant achieve her orgasim from the vaginal side,,, please advice me what to do and how to make this succeed for her. thankS

Hi, my GF and i just started anal and i want to know how to make her Orgasm from her butt,, i have no idea and she also does not know anything,, please advice me ,,,, i think of her butt and i get turned on like crazy but she isnt yet there but she is open mined about it and she likes getting there the right way.

Thanks

If you love your wife and she should ever suffer any serious injury, due to your lusty and exhuberant anal intrusions, and require medical attention, and possibly hospitalization, your guilty conscience is going to make you pay a harsh price for your adventures in rectal reconnaissance. Do you have a good medical insurance plan that covers injury from anal intrusion? Sometimes, true love is demonstrated by what you don't do rather than by what you do.

Do you think some wine is the reason? My wife and I tried anal sex 3 times till now, it was not hurting for her as I was careful and we did it step by step till I could go half way in, I loved it and could stay anal forever but I also lie giving it to her the normal way cause I also enjoy it, te thing is my wife didn't really have that feeling of orgasm or intense when I was in her butt and she was like it feels weird, I want to let her want it not just to please me and I want her to say f**k me in my butt cause she feels she wants it, any advice? Maybe we have not done it enough like 3 times not enough or we have to do it in a special way ? Her butt turns me on and I can f**k her everyday if she asks for it, I can have sex 5 times per week I have no problem and sometimes twice at a time with one hour long each. Please advice.

I had read in several publications that oriental men suspend heavy weights from their testicles as a method of enhancing their virility & potency. My wife has been busting my balls lately about not getting enough sexual activity. It's not easy getting it up for a ball-busting shrew who has put on over 40 pounds since we were married. BUT, what the f**k, her old man is connected and I don't want to end up in a ditch with a bullet in my head. If I don't give her a good thorough f*****g from time to time, she'll assume that I'm doing the wild thing elsewhere. Now, I can't walk around the house with weights hanging from my balls. My wife would b***h to EVERY member of her family about how her worthless husband is a demented f**k who roams around with dumbbells dangling from his gotz. I would be a laughing stock. All her brothers and sisters and even her Uncle Nunzio would know within minutes. I would be the laughing stock at family dinners. "Hey, Vito, how much weight you got swinging from the old shazool today?" I knew that a dominatrix does all kinds of things to her customers and I figured that, if I found one that was close and handy, I could sneak over from time to time and pay her to attach appropriate amounts of weights to my balls. I wouldn't have to buy weights and answer questions about what they were for. A buddy of mine gave me the name of a Dominatrix that did her business under the guise of a therapist. I told my wife that I was taking the car in to be serviced and rode to the Dominatrix's premises. The reception area looked like a regular psychiatrist office like I saw on the Sopranos. She asked me if I had ever been to an S&M dominatrix before. I told her that I hadn't but that I have a wife that busts my balls on a regular basis which is about the same thing. She noticed me ogling her luscious tits and told me in no uncertain terms that, if I was looking for any kind of sex, I should get the f**k out. "Look Honey, I told her, "I'm not here for sex, I'm here for you to hang some weights on my balls because I read that Oriental guys use that method to increase their sexual stamina and capacity." I told her that I needed all the help I could get so as to be able to service my ball-busting wife. She told me that I was the third guy that week to come in and make that request.  She took me into an adjoining suite and MARONE, I nearly crapped my drawers! The place looked like Frankenstein’s f*****g dungeon! It was dark and the only light came from a red light bulb. There were all kinds of whips and nasty looking equipment and a whole f*****g display case loaded end to end on every shelf with different size dildos.  Some of them looked like they could kill an elephant if you shoved it up its ass.  The dominatrix took off her white doctors jacket and, Jesus Christ, was dressed all in tight black leather! She ordered me to strip in a voice that led me to believe that she just might be an even bigger ball-buster than the one I had at home. I took off all my clothes and stood there bare-assed naked, too nervous and ill at ease to even contemplate getting a hard-on.  She told me, “Technically you’re NOT slave material but I have my professional ethic to uphold so I’m going to address you as I would a slave. We have a house rule that you must be under restraint during your session.”  It would be an understatement to say that I was slightly taken aback. “Look Honey” ,I told her. I’m kind of nervous about being tied up. “How do I know that some finook is not going to rush in all of a sudden from some hiding place and f**k me in my ass?  I’m just here to get some weights hung from my balls!”   She answered that she couldn’t stay in business if unwilling guys were getting screwed in the ass right and left in her establishment. Someone would raise a stink with the authorities. She only provided services that her clients requested and, in doing so, was within the law (as long as no one were to die).   She walked over in a no nonsense way and put my hands behind my back, like I was being f*****g arrested, and handcuffed me. “How much weight do you want me to use”, she asked. “I don’t know”, I answered, “What did those other guys start with?” “I had one slave start with 5 pounds and another who right away wanted 25.”  “I’ll split the difference and make it 15”.  She, in a very firm, experienced and businesslike way stretched out my ball-sack until I was about to scream “Mama Mia” and attached a leather harness to it which had a chain attached with a clamp at the end. She picked out a 15 pound dumbbell, wrapped the end around the bar and affixed the clip. She held the barbell and asked me if I wanted her to drop it and let it hang free. ”Do it easy Honey, let it down easy!  I don’t want my balls to end up rolling under your furniture.” Let me tell you something, a 15 pound weight hanging from your ball-sack is not an easy thing. Then, all of a sudden,   in a commanding tone of voice, she ordered me to start using the stair master she had among her equipment. So, now, I’m climbing the stair master with fifteen pounds suspended by a chain from my balls. The sweat is pouring off of me. After 15 minutes, she called a time out and attached another 10 pounds. Now I was doing the stair-climbing with my hands handcuffed behind my back and 25 pounds dangling from my cannolis. By the end of the hour session she had me up to fifty pounds of weight dangling from my poor abused gotz. With the session ended, she removed the restrains from my hands and the weights from my suffering balls. She stopped ordering me around like I was some piece of sh*t and reverted back to her professional businesslike mode of expression. My gullones were pretty sore from all the heavily weighted bouncing they had had to endure. But right there and then in the depths of my psyche I committed myself to the goal of lifting as much weight with my testicles as any of those Oriental mamalukes I had read about.   I had found the right dominatrix practitioner for the goal I wanted to accomplish. She accepts no excuse   or pleading for mercy. Besides using the stair climber with ever increasing poundage dangling from my balls, I was ordered to climb ladders and run laps on her indoor track while my harnessed balls bore the brunt of the brutal regimen. You might well ask if my efforts expended in this quest for potency have borne fruit. I cannot , at this early stage assert that my virility has dramatically increased. My wife is still bitching and moaning about not getting enough penis BUT, now I am able to sing like Frankie Valle.

 

I Love Kinky Sex

Hi Y55, glad to hear about how much you both line anal ;) Personally I find the best way to have an organism is to either lye on my back with him in my butt and the friction of his pubic bone rubbing against my clit is Amazing or if I go on top and slid him into my butt ;) It's an amazing sensation - although I'd only move into this position after you've opened her butt - so to speak. Use loads of lube as the more slippery the less pain!
Also, before having anal sex try fore play fist by fingering her butt and then move onto putting your penis in!
I love anal especially if i've had a few glasses of wine - but I can get a little embarrassed asking my partner for it!
Also, if you're having unprotected anal sex make sure you go for a pee once you've finished to stop you getting a water infection - Happy Humping ;))

There dosnt need to be any pain with anal sex! Use poppers before intercourse , they relax the anal muscles, making it much easier for him to get in and ALOT less painful for the girl. Initially you'll get a head rush but only for afew seconds.

Poppers are pretty safe to use and can be brought over the internet or in sex shops, they are not for everyone as they can give some girls a headache but my I've never had a problem.

I recommend popping a bottle of suds open, shovin the neck of the bottle up her ass as she is bent over,
Let the beer bottle run dry, remove, and them insert penis. She will get fcked up very quickly by doing this. Do not use more than one beer!