Too Much Sex Or Masterbation?

:-) I am 36 yrs old married male. Internet pron video make me masturbates often...sometimes i do it two times... some time sex also with wife and later masturbates too..i had also sex with many women ... from last 16 yers i am doing this almost everyday..sex is ok with wife ..from last four years we are trying to make baby but nth is happening ..plz help me i want stop this masturbates ...and i need baby...there is any way..plz help me..thnx a lot.... :-)

I am a 24-year old female.  From research and personal experience, excessive masturbation, in both men and women, can lead to de-sensitivity during masturbation or intercourse.  That makes it harder for you to orgasm, and can be quite irritating.  Too much of anything can be bad, if not physically, psychologically.  If you let something control you, then you slowly start losing sight of other aspects in your life. @ Monty Rana, have you considered going to a fertility specialist?  The problem isn't automatically the women, it can many times be the man who is either sterile or has weak sperm.  Be aware of each others feelings, and don't ever throw it in your wife's face that she hasn't gotten pregnant yet.  You may be the problem, but if it is her, then I'm sure she will be self-conscious about it.  To any man that believes all women lose their sex drive after marriage, you are sadly mistaken.  Take into consideration that a woman's brain thinks differently than a man's.  Most women see sex as something very personal and emotional.  Foreplay is often key.  Our libido is often determined on your, the man's, actions on a day to day basis.  Be considerate, and don't expect women to be turned on like the light to the bedroom.  I, myself, am a divorced women, and though libido was not a problem in my marriage, it did decrease whenever I felt unappreciated, manipulated, or offended.  No, we don't have to be old-fashioned like our parents, but women still want a man to respect them and be chivalrous. Any relationship should be 100/100, not 50/50. If you guys are good at math, 50 out of 100 is only half, so if each is only giving 50%, there's something wrong there.  Good luck to all of you in life and love.  ♥Hopeless Romantic with a Side Dish of Realist

yes it can

Hi, I'm a 18 year old female, and I don't sleep around, but all that sexual frustration needs to go somewhere. I started masturbating to release some of the tension, but ever since I had an orgasm for the first time I have been having these unexplained rushes of arousal. I can't go more than a week without touching myself. Is this normal?

the practice of masterbation does not make you gay, besides everyone has a little bit of gay in them even if they dont admit it. there is nothing to be worried about

I think I am experiencing the same thing with memory retention. I am 21 and I have been masturbating a lot and I don't hold a good memory like I used to. I think I am addicted and I just need to stop. Did your memory come back better when you quit?

you are 100% right. masturbation does not make one a Gay. Again Gays are also Humans. and they love what they do.

hey bro masturbating once a day or even twice a day it's perfectly fine as long as nothing hurts. And no it won't make you gay but if you were gay that would be okay too.

Aside from all the apparent health benefits of masturbation (male), is it true that regular masturbation reduces male fertility hence his ability to have children? Also how often is too much?