me and my wife have been trying to conceive for about 2 in a half years now. We have had no luck. She has a kid already and I don't have any. She says it's her because she has an irregular period. I think it's me because she has one and I don't. I want nothing more than to have a mini me or two or three. My cousin told me to have sex while her menastration is on. I say it's gross. He says it's when she is most ready. I just don't know. Can anybody give me some options or any kind of advice.