Hi, I'm 17 and I'm a virgin. I plan on keeping it this way for a while. I've been trying to get an orgasm and it hasn't been working. When I was 12 I found a method of masturbating, I didn't know that that was what it was at the time, and it worked well then. Basically I just pressed pressed down in my pelvic region and held it (often times my breath too) and eventually this feeling would overcome me and I'd feel a pulsing in that area. I know it's not an orgasm because it isn't intense enough. It feels really good but there's no satisfaction in it. Besides, I could do it many times over and it never satisfies me.
Lately i've been trying clitoral stimulation (I've had no luck in finding my g spot and fingering doesn't feel nice to me) but it hasn't worked either... I build up the feeling, different than my old method, and it feels like it's going to keep going to something good but then it just begins the pulsating that my old method did. I'm stuck on this. No matter what I do, it comes back to the pulsating and I just need some satisfaction instead. Help???
Lately i've been trying clitoral stimulation (I've had no luck in finding my g spot and fingering doesn't feel nice to me) but it hasn't worked either... I build up the feeling, different than my old method, and it feels like it's going to keep going to something good but then it just begins the pulsating that my old method did. I'm stuck on this. No matter what I do, it comes back to the pulsating and I just need some satisfaction instead. Help???
Well, achieving a clitoral orgasm isn't only about the physical mechanics of how you're stimulating yourself down there, though different techniques can really make a very big difference in whether you get to orgasm or not. It's also about mental arousal.
If you ask 100 women, I'm sure less than half and maybe a lot less than half can orgasm with physical stimulation alone. The rest need to be mentally aroused as well. Try fantasizing during masturbation or even reading a sexy novel.
As for techniques, apart from a vibrator, the shower also works really well. Just spray yourself with the water.
To have an intercourse is decided by nature, and you will get complete pleasure only after a complete intercourse with a man,
manipulation etc won't give you that much pleasure as this is an act of 2 bodies and not one, no matter how good you can fantasize ;)
Its good that you are trying to wait. I think that you might try getting a vibrator. I would suggest trying a "bullet type". You could order discreetly online or try somewhere like Spencers in the mall if you cant or dont want to go to a toy shop