uneven labia

Hi, I am a guy, and uneven labia turn me on. Asymmetry is a fact of life in both men and women. For example, in men, one testicle hangs lower than the other, and during an erection, the penis tends to bend towards one side. From what I have read, all this is normal. Having said this, I can imagine that some of your future sex partners may be turned off by your uneven labia, while some others may be turned on by them, and most of the rest probably don't care one way or the other. The important thing here is for you to love yourself for what you are. I recently read an article in steadyhealth.com concerning cosmetic surgery on the labia. I find it sad that some women cannot accept themselves for what they are.

Thanks, thats defenetly resassured me having a guys perspective, however the discolleration still worries me and to be honest it would probably turn me off if i were a guy

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Mine's the same way. I don't think it's gross, but I have wondered, from time to time, if it's normal. Honestly, if a guy likes you enough to have sex with you, I think he'll be able to overlook the fact that your vagina isn't totally symmetrical. Nobody is, anywhere on their body. It's a fact of life. If a guy can't deal with you being imperfect in some places, I'd say it's time to find a new one.

And I am not one solid color down their, either. If you're thinking it's gross or abnormal because of what you've seen in porn, too, I'd recommend you don't compare yourself to them. It's airbrushed and made with surgery!

You're fine how you are. :]