hi im a little woried as i have been with my fella for 6 months and we are sexually active but i am not on the pill and we have been using the withdrawl method as i was told it was totally safe? i feel really stupid now and i am a lil worried as i am a day late for my period. i know the only wa to find out is if i take a test but i am too scared and paranoid to go and buy 1! wot are the chances realisticly of me bein caught out?
Who ever told you that the withdrawl method is totally safe, is totally wrong. Withdrawl, pull out, coitus interuptus is not a form of birth control and should never be used as such. There are trace amounts of sperm in pre cum. Right place, right time.
Being that you are a day late does not necessarily mean that you arepregnant. Being stressed out and worried can keep your period away for sure. Sounds like you have been taking chances for quite a while. Your partner has to be strong willed and in complete control to pull out. Sometimes, just a wee bit of sperm may get away from him, that's all it takes. He may not even realize it, getting lost in the moment is understandable.
I realize that you are scared right now, but go to the store and buy a test.
Then you will put your mind at ease either way.
Are you un able to take birth control? If you have been sexually active with the same guy for 6 months, why hasn't birth control been an issue? At least a condom.
Once you know for sure, and if you are not pregnant, please look into birth control. You can go to planned parenhood. It is confidential. They work with you financially as well.
I would hate to see you go thru this ordeal every time you have unprotected sex. You can also get a fist full of condoms on your way out the door. And they are FREE.
Being that you are a day late does not necessarily mean that you arepregnant. Being stressed out and worried can keep your period away for sure. Sounds like you have been taking chances for quite a while. Your partner has to be strong willed and in complete control to pull out. Sometimes, just a wee bit of sperm may get away from him, that's all it takes. He may not even realize it, getting lost in the moment is understandable.
I realize that you are scared right now, but go to the store and buy a test.
Then you will put your mind at ease either way.
Are you un able to take birth control? If you have been sexually active with the same guy for 6 months, why hasn't birth control been an issue? At least a condom.
Once you know for sure, and if you are not pregnant, please look into birth control. You can go to planned parenhood. It is confidential. They work with you financially as well.
I would hate to see you go thru this ordeal every time you have unprotected sex. You can also get a fist full of condoms on your way out the door. And they are FREE.