Hey all,
My girlfriend and I have been having sex for a couple of months now. We know the in's and out's of having safe sex, like how to use a condom, pulling out while still hard while holding condom at base, etc etc... We've been doing this for a while now up until last night.
Last night my gf and I had our intimate session, and I came... yet I didnt pull out like I normally do afterwards. I just layed on top of her and kept kissing her. Naturally my penis became soft and when I did pull out, the condom came right off. The condom was inside of her with the end hanging down. All of my semen spilled out onto the bed where she was laying on. At the time I didn't realize that it had spilled out, and was only focusing on taking out the condom from her vagina. She then sat up and sat directly on the semen that had spilled out, only to realize what had happened and quickly wiped it off with my T-shirt.
Now, we are a little concerned. The condoms that I use are the Trojan Spermicidal Lubricated, and we would like to know if there is a really big cause for concern (i.e. should she take a morning after pill?) or is the risk of becoming pregnant minimal? I should mention that she has an irregular period, varying from 1 month to sometimes 3 months before periods. This is what scares us because by the time we realize that she missed her period, she might already be 3 months pregnant. About 2 weeks ago she had some bleeding from her vagina (which was 2 weeks after her last period). Is this her ovulating? I would think that by her just sitting on my semen might be minimal risk as it had already dripped out, and had been sitting on the bed for about 15 seconds before she sat on it, but I'd still like to know.
Thanks for reading this.
My girlfriend and I have been having sex for a couple of months now. We know the in's and out's of having safe sex, like how to use a condom, pulling out while still hard while holding condom at base, etc etc... We've been doing this for a while now up until last night.
Last night my gf and I had our intimate session, and I came... yet I didnt pull out like I normally do afterwards. I just layed on top of her and kept kissing her. Naturally my penis became soft and when I did pull out, the condom came right off. The condom was inside of her with the end hanging down. All of my semen spilled out onto the bed where she was laying on. At the time I didn't realize that it had spilled out, and was only focusing on taking out the condom from her vagina. She then sat up and sat directly on the semen that had spilled out, only to realize what had happened and quickly wiped it off with my T-shirt.
Now, we are a little concerned. The condoms that I use are the Trojan Spermicidal Lubricated, and we would like to know if there is a really big cause for concern (i.e. should she take a morning after pill?) or is the risk of becoming pregnant minimal? I should mention that she has an irregular period, varying from 1 month to sometimes 3 months before periods. This is what scares us because by the time we realize that she missed her period, she might already be 3 months pregnant. About 2 weeks ago she had some bleeding from her vagina (which was 2 weeks after her last period). Is this her ovulating? I would think that by her just sitting on my semen might be minimal risk as it had already dripped out, and had been sitting on the bed for about 15 seconds before she sat on it, but I'd still like to know.
Thanks for reading this.
I think it would be very unlikely, but you should still consider the morning after pill as it is far better to be safe than sorry.