thing is, i'm kinda deformed down there. I didn't even know it, until my doctor told me. It doesn't really affect me, but know i'm really self concious, and my boyfriend's pushing me to well, you know. I need people's opinions on whether surgery is worth it, or do guys even care?
There are only two people who's opinion matters.
One is your doctor, who should not have left you hanging on this subject.
Get back to them and demand some counseling about what you should or should not do about this. Did they indicate that it was a problem that should be treated?
Your opinion is the only other one that matters... and you need some more info before making an opinion.
As far as your Boyfriend is concerned, well, if he doesn't accept you as you are, then he's not really very involved with you, now is he?
Plus, don't assume that he will be disapproving. He may be really turned on by whatever you present. Don't pre-judge.
But if this is something that will affect your relationship with him, draw him into the discussion...AFTER you consult with your doctor.
Good luck.
Let us know what results.
I'd really like to know how this turns out and what your doctor tells you.
One is your doctor, who should not have left you hanging on this subject.
Get back to them and demand some counseling about what you should or should not do about this. Did they indicate that it was a problem that should be treated?
Your opinion is the only other one that matters... and you need some more info before making an opinion.
As far as your Boyfriend is concerned, well, if he doesn't accept you as you are, then he's not really very involved with you, now is he?
Plus, don't assume that he will be disapproving. He may be really turned on by whatever you present. Don't pre-judge.
But if this is something that will affect your relationship with him, draw him into the discussion...AFTER you consult with your doctor.
Good luck.
Let us know what results.
I'd really like to know how this turns out and what your doctor tells you.