I will tell you honestly, if your boyfriend really loves you, he will not mind what your vagina looks like. He will like you how you are. I love my girlfriend, and everything that she has that most people would think are defects, I think are cute and make her special.
tryingtosmile wrote:
please reply to me!!!! so no one has the same problem?
You can smile again when you realise that all girls vagina's are as different as a face, no two are the same. Just look at these examples you will see that yours is as inviting as anyones. I hope this will put you as ease and give you confidence. Remember it is yours and you will learn to love it and when you do your lover will too.
erogenousdot.com/
I advise that you consider well before you decide to have sex with any person and that you take care and precautions. When you have made the decision to "make love" then be happy and try not to rush it, do not make it a wasted opportunity.
please reply to me!!!! so no one has the same problem?
You can smile again when you realise that all girls vagina's are as different as a face, no two are the same. Just look at these examples you will see that yours is as inviting as anyones. I hope this will put you as ease and give you confidence. Remember it is yours and you will learn to love it and when you do your lover will too.
erogenousdot.com/
I advise that you consider well before you decide to have sex with any person and that you take care and precautions. When you have made the decision to "make love" then be happy and try not to rush it, do not make it a wasted opportunity.
omg I don't feel so alone now.
I always had thought I had something wrong with me
like i had a disease
but I now know its normal.
I always had thought I had something wrong with me
like i had a disease
but I now know its normal.
Why don't women know that this is so normal and even more beautiful than the vagina of a 10 year old with nothing to see?
i hope this is going to the right thing. but i am only 15, and i am the exact same way. mine is the same as yours. and now im glad to know that i am not the only one.
I have the same exact problem
I am so embarrassed about mine I don't want my boyfriend to see it and think it's weird or something, i don't know but i know how you feel
I am so embarrassed about mine I don't want my boyfriend to see it and think it's weird or something, i don't know but i know how you feel
Totally normal :] I dont think ANY guy with a brain is going to care or even notice. I've had it since about 12 and I'm 18 now.
-I am the same!! i thought i was the only one in the world... I never want to show it to anyone - im worried my bf will just say ew gross - .. but reading all this is making me more confident. If you keep it shaved and smelling good. . hopefully he will enjoy? hah. x
Its acually more common then you think. There are even guys how have this problem; dark penis, or half dark. were all all have flaws that we put our selfs done for, when acually where all different and yet the same. My son has a pencil size hole in his penis. I always put myself down or not show my boobs when having sex, I feel there to small. I went to a strip bar and half the girls boobs where small and they all where all different sizes. Your young I wouldnt lie to you, its normal, love yourself.
It's perfectly normal, absolutely nothing wrong with any of you gals.
Chin up, smile, and realise that vaginas come in many shapes and sizes, there is no "mould" for the perfect vagina and it makes no difference to anything - including sex. Most guys don't care anyway, so try not to spend too much time thinking about it.
It's not uncommon for labia (the lips) to be long, short, different lengths, smooth or wrinkly - it's all perfectly normal and nothing at all to worry about.
Although - if they're slightly longer then there's got to be more nerve endings there right? Which I guess could make things even better in a sexual sense. Rawh.
Love your vaginas, no matter what they look like! ^.^
-hugs-
Chin up, smile, and realise that vaginas come in many shapes and sizes, there is no "mould" for the perfect vagina and it makes no difference to anything - including sex. Most guys don't care anyway, so try not to spend too much time thinking about it.
It's not uncommon for labia (the lips) to be long, short, different lengths, smooth or wrinkly - it's all perfectly normal and nothing at all to worry about.
Although - if they're slightly longer then there's got to be more nerve endings there right? Which I guess could make things even better in a sexual sense. Rawh.
Love your vaginas, no matter what they look like! ^.^
-hugs-
same, mines like mega long!! but at the moment its soooo swollen and itchy and it hurts when i walk and stuff, im a virgin so it cant be my boyfriends fault but he might of touched it with dirty hands, how do i get the swelling down, someone help!!!
My guess is that you have Thrush.
Thrush is a very easily treatable problem caused by yeast levels in the vigina going a bit weird - it's got nothing to do with sex or dirty hands, it just happens sometimes.
Head into a chemist / pharmacist and ask for "Canesten Duo" it's a tablet to correct the levels, and a cream to sooth the itching. It'll be gone in two to three days. If you're in the USA just ask for Thrush treatment if they don't know what Canesten Duo is, it can be given over the counter and you don't need to see a doctor.
Oh, and it's very, VERY common.
:)
Thrush is a very easily treatable problem caused by yeast levels in the vigina going a bit weird - it's got nothing to do with sex or dirty hands, it just happens sometimes.
Head into a chemist / pharmacist and ask for "Canesten Duo" it's a tablet to correct the levels, and a cream to sooth the itching. It'll be gone in two to three days. If you're in the USA just ask for Thrush treatment if they don't know what Canesten Duo is, it can be given over the counter and you don't need to see a doctor.
Oh, and it's very, VERY common.
:)
AlmostNormal wrote:
What are some of the symptoms of thrush? I think that your diagnosis is probably accurate but I would like to hear a little more about it. Would you mind sharing? Thanks!
Guest wrote:
same, mines like mega long!! but at the moment its soooo swollen and itchy and it hurts when i walk and stuff, im a virgin so it cant be my boyfriends fault but he might of touched it with dirty hands, how do i get the swelling down, someone help!!!
My guess is that you have Thrush.
Thrush is a very easily treatable problem caused by yeast levels in the vigina going a bit weird - it's got nothing to do with sex or dirty hands, it just happens sometimes.
Head into a chemist / pharmacist and ask for "Canesten Duo" it's a tablet to correct the levels, and a cream to sooth the itching. It'll be gone in two to three days. If you're in the USA just ask for Thrush treatment if they don't know what Canesten Duo is, it can be given over the counter and you don't need to see a doctor.
Oh, and it's very, VERY common.
:)
What are some of the symptoms of thrush? I think that your diagnosis is probably accurate but I would like to hear a little more about it. Would you mind sharing? Thanks!
Sure :)
Thrush can just happen so there's rarely any incidents that lead to it, some reasons that it could occur include:
Medicines such as antibiotics and steroids. This is because antibiotics kill the friendly bacteria in the vagina.
Physical trauma such as sexual intercourse and inserting tampons
Stress
Menstruation
Using perfumed soaps and shower gels
Wearing tight clothing
Hormonal fluctuations due to menopause and pregnancy
The area can become swollen, very intensely itchy, sore, red and painful.
Virginal discharge may thicken slightly, or go slightly yellow - but not always. Sex will become really painful.
It could burn when you pee, but not always.
Basically the intense itching, even just by having underwear on or by light touches that make you watch to scratch, or at worst make it really uncomfortable to walk.
Not eveyone gets it at the same levels, some may have less itching than others, but when it's making you want to smack your head against the wall because it itches and burns so much then it's time for tablet and cream treatment.
Trust me, from first hand experience, the cream and tablet combo to fix it is a GODSEND. The cream soothes away the itch and you can keep applying it as needed and the single tablet is easy to swallow. Normally not expensive either and it will clean it up in days.
Although there are four ways to treat it:
External cream
Internal cream (coming with an applicator tube)
Pessary (a tablet which is inserted into the vagina)
Oral capsule
Normally you're given an oral capsule and an external cream.
Note: Internal creams or Pessarys are given for you to use in private, so you'll be the one to apply it and not a doctor or nurse.
Hope this helps ^^
Thrush can just happen so there's rarely any incidents that lead to it, some reasons that it could occur include:
Medicines such as antibiotics and steroids. This is because antibiotics kill the friendly bacteria in the vagina.
Physical trauma such as sexual intercourse and inserting tampons
Stress
Menstruation
Using perfumed soaps and shower gels
Wearing tight clothing
Hormonal fluctuations due to menopause and pregnancy
The area can become swollen, very intensely itchy, sore, red and painful.
Virginal discharge may thicken slightly, or go slightly yellow - but not always. Sex will become really painful.
It could burn when you pee, but not always.
Basically the intense itching, even just by having underwear on or by light touches that make you watch to scratch, or at worst make it really uncomfortable to walk.
Not eveyone gets it at the same levels, some may have less itching than others, but when it's making you want to smack your head against the wall because it itches and burns so much then it's time for tablet and cream treatment.
Trust me, from first hand experience, the cream and tablet combo to fix it is a GODSEND. The cream soothes away the itch and you can keep applying it as needed and the single tablet is easy to swallow. Normally not expensive either and it will clean it up in days.
Although there are four ways to treat it:
External cream
Internal cream (coming with an applicator tube)
Pessary (a tablet which is inserted into the vagina)
Oral capsule
Normally you're given an oral capsule and an external cream.
Note: Internal creams or Pessarys are given for you to use in private, so you'll be the one to apply it and not a doctor or nurse.
Hope this helps ^^
For anyone that's scared, there's no reason to be. I've been with three guys intimately, and none of them cared. Yes, when I was younger and noticed it, I was a bit scared. I thought the same things "am I the only one?" "will guys not like this?"
My current boyfriend and I have actually talked about it. And you know what he told me. He told me I was perfect. HE DID NOT CARE. so for anyone who is nervous about it, don't be. If some guy doesn't like it, then its his loss anyway. =)
My current boyfriend and I have actually talked about it. And you know what he told me. He told me I was perfect. HE DID NOT CARE. so for anyone who is nervous about it, don't be. If some guy doesn't like it, then its his loss anyway. =)