I'm 20 years old and feel a bit silly that i'm still a virgin. I've been seeing a guy for some time now and feel very comfortable around him etc. He seems to be very sexual experienced and there was a lot of foreplay beofre trying to enter me ( he doesn;t know i'm a virgina nd im not too keen to tell him). There was no way he was going to get in at all and i think we were both fairly disappointed and he just said he couldnt believe how tight i was. We tried gain later with the same result. I think he did break my hymen as he had blood on his fingers. Why am i so tight and how can i stop it? The thought of sex really excites me and i just want to get on with it now!!
I also feel terrible because he does all this foreplay stuff for me and i do nothing back for him, so basically im getting a lot of pleasure from his fingers and tongue but he gets nothing at all.
Helpp!!!!!!!
I also feel terrible because he does all this foreplay stuff for me and i do nothing back for him, so basically im getting a lot of pleasure from his fingers and tongue but he gets nothing at all.
Helpp!!!!!!!
Try vaseline will help
I suggest you just tell him and go from there. he should not be upset about it at all. You're likely tight cause you are a virgin or he has a larger member. Use lube and really it's going to hurt so take the few moments of pain while he enters you.
He will be happy when you finally give it up. HAve him lick you until you are gushing and then give him oral until he is very hard.
Then let him have at it. He will love it. What are you waiting for.
Then let him have at it. He will love it. What are you waiting for.
yeah if you lube it it will go in easier. but it will hurt very badly for maybe 2minutes but you have to deal with it. im 15 years old and thats what me and my girlfriend did. vasoline or lubriderm would be the best choice. hope it works for you :-)
Uhm,, i think the two of you should try using your fingers first, as it allows the vagina to become more flexible and kind of open... After that, he should be trying to insert his penis inside you regularly...
HOPE IT'S GOOD ENOUGH :))
Probably you are trying with your legs lying on the bed. In this situation your partener can not put so much pressure to enter in you. You may pull your legs upward and put your knees on on your breasts. In this situation your partner will be able to put his whole body weight on you which certainly help him to enter in you. However it will be very painful to you since in this situation his full length will go in to you and a virgin girl cannot handle this situation. you may face severe stomach pain which may take 2-3 days to eliminate. The same condition was with me but a little hair oil and above posture helped us. Good Luck