hey, yeh i have been having a lot of trouble having sex with my boyfriend.
we've been living together for over two months now and been together over half a year, we'll be getting married by the end of this year and still we have not been able to make love to each other. the problem seems to be that i am to tight down there, but for the past couple days he's been using his fingers and still we have made no progress and from the looks of it won't. could there be something wrong with me?
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This doesn’t seem to be a serious problem and therefore there is nothing wrong with you. As you are still a virgin, I could give you a piece of advice which might be useful. First of all, lets say that most vaginas are only four inches in length and the size of it shouldn’t make a difference. When a woman is sexually aroused, the vagina begins to produce lubrication to aid in penetration so you should make sure there is plenty of it. You wouldn’t make it if you are nervous, upset or in pains so you should fully relax yourself. The extended foreplay may help here and also you should think about using artificial lubricants in and out your vagina (my suggestion is to use lube). You should also pay attention to having a control by using your own fingers instead of his as then you can proceed at exactly the rate that is most comfortable for you. This might be a bit hard for you if you aren’t ready to do it in front of your boyfriend but will certainly help you to feel more relaxed and, what is the most important, you won’t feel the pain. And when you eventually are ready for the sexual intercourse, you should also be the one who controls it. Make sure everything depends on you, whatever you do- you do it slowly so it doesn’t hurt. Afterall, sex is meant to enjoy it, isn’t it?