I asked a genuine question that no one either doesnt know the answer to or im being ignored because I am not 11 years old asking about sex. I guess I wasted my time on this site. Which is a shame because it could be a great place without that.
Hey Crazy Cat Lady,
I'm sorry you feel that way. I read your post and I couldn't answer with anything other than "I think you should go back to your doctor", so I didn't reply. The accident you went through sounds horrific and I think you have been very brave and patient since it happened. However, I haven't experienced what you're going through, so I didn't feel competent enough to reply.
I really do get your frustrations though. I'm on here a lot since I stopped working and find the posts you mentioned, quite irritating. I don't tend to answer them as I don't believe most of them are from who they say they are! I also find most of them quite sick...and have you noticed that the 'Member of the Month' is always someone who is replying to the pre-teen sex advice? Mmmmm...makes you wonder, huh?
I am very sorry I couldn't help you and I hope you find someone who can.
My best wishes to you
V
P.S- I am also a 'crazy cat lady'. I have 5! ;o)
Thank you for your kind words. This whole thing makes me want to start a similiar but better site with an age restriction. 90 percent of the posts on here are disgusting and as immature as their posters! Cant believe they let those posts continue
Go for it and let me know if you do.
I'm more a psyche person than a medical person (I was a research psychologist); personality disorders, mental health and attachment are my areas. I also specialise in advice for 'stoners' and cannabis addicts (seeing as I was one for so damn long!).
It was a while ago, but I did have a moan about the lack of age restrictions and I'm pretty sure they have a minimum age of 13 here, but posters don't take any notice. It's a bit like a certain social network- they can fake their birth date to sign up, so unfortunately, I don't think it's something that can be completely controlled by the moderators.
I do agree with some of the posts being removed; however, again, that would be pretty hard as I suppose some of them are genuine and it's trying to decipher which ones are which.
I just think it's a sad state of affairs, when young kids and teens think that posting that sort of stuff is 'funny'. They obviously don't have a very good quality of life to get their kicks from either shagging around or writing about shagging around!
I also get frustrated with the 'Am I pregnant? Am I not?', 'How do I squirt?' etc. They have the internet at their finger tips and they still can't figure out how to type the words in to google! Plus it makes me wonder about the state of education- we are, after all, in 2013 and not 1913!
Anyway- good luck to you.
V