Whenever I perform sexual activities that don't involve me ejaculating I find afterwards that there is a wet patch on my pants roughly the size of a cups radius, I believe it is pre-cum? However its very embarrassing because women think I have prematurely ejaculated when i haven't. Is this normal?
"Pre-come" is completely normal, it just means you were getting very excited and the woman should take it as a compliment. The amount of pre-come someone can produce varies from person to person.