i have a question it probably sounds stupid but i kinda need to know...im 18 n i lost my virgnity when i as 16 and it didnt hurt, not at all, and i didnt bleed at all either...im now 18 and ive only had sex 3 times and that was 2 years ago rite fter i lost my virginity. me n my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and we both think its about "that time" and we tried to do it once, and it just didnt work, he was too big, i was too tight. ...I got curious one day and decided to take a look down there and in the opening to my vagina there was a thin fleshy skin from the top of my vaginal opening to the bottom, and its sort of off to the side, not exactly in the middle...what the hell is that !?
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Hello! Have you been looking down there before or this was the first time?
Do you think it is possible you had it before but just didn’t notice or you are sure that this is something new and strange?
Does it look like a normal part of your skin down there? It could be just one of the normal vaginal (vulval) anatomy (appareance).
I myself have a very strange inner lip. It has a part that looks as if it shouldn’t be there but it is, it always has been and is just attached to my inner labia.
If you are too worried and think this is some sort of growth on your skin, you should certainly have it checked by either a gynecologist or dermatologist.
Do you think it is possible you had it before but just didn’t notice or you are sure that this is something new and strange?
Does it look like a normal part of your skin down there? It could be just one of the normal vaginal (vulval) anatomy (appareance).
I myself have a very strange inner lip. It has a part that looks as if it shouldn’t be there but it is, it always has been and is just attached to my inner labia.
If you are too worried and think this is some sort of growth on your skin, you should certainly have it checked by either a gynecologist or dermatologist.
its always been there, its nothing new...im just worred it might be in the way durring sex...or even when i have kids, bcuz where it is would def. be a problem, it looks as if it would have to be like cut or something...its weird..its from the top of my vagina to the bottom, and its a fleshy like skin, just like a line of it rite in the middle..so theres an opening on each side...does that sound weird to u or is it just me ?
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It is just you. Just like I thought, it is nothing troublesome just the appearance of your outer vagina. The thing is that you don’t like it.
It certainly won’t bother you during sex and you won’t have any troubles having kids because of that. There are all sorts of vulvas in the world. My brother has been online for quite some time, so I have seen all sorts of vulvas from his photos.
The thing is that guys don’t mind anything. It would be better to say they like everything down there if it’s clean of course. I know this will sound gross but obviously some don’t mind if it isn’t.
Anyway, do you feel ashamed because of your lips or feel uncomfortable? You should, because guys are just fascinated by what we have down there and would give anything to have a pick, touch, smell (or whatever) into all sorts of vaginal lips….big, small, hairy, bald,…….
So, don’t worry about it and enjoy yourself
It certainly won’t bother you during sex and you won’t have any troubles having kids because of that. There are all sorts of vulvas in the world. My brother has been online for quite some time, so I have seen all sorts of vulvas from his photos.
The thing is that guys don’t mind anything. It would be better to say they like everything down there if it’s clean of course. I know this will sound gross but obviously some don’t mind if it isn’t.
Anyway, do you feel ashamed because of your lips or feel uncomfortable? You should, because guys are just fascinated by what we have down there and would give anything to have a pick, touch, smell (or whatever) into all sorts of vaginal lips….big, small, hairy, bald,…….
So, don’t worry about it and enjoy yourself