what can i do?

i try to avoid relationships.
i am bi...
and well i am sexually active
the problem is that i try to move on from the 1st guy and well
even though i say i've moved on, i haven't, and because of that i have gotten involve with more and more people
i am still messing with my xboyfriend, and i met this guy that reminds me of the guy i haven't moved on from, and i met this girl that i think she is great.
the problem is that i havent moved on from 1st guy, and he says he hasnt
also. i try to have this relationships with all of them where we can stay as friends but really it has become difficult to because they all want to be more than friends. i try to push them all away and well the more i do the more they come, the guys do, the girl i've been talking to well i try to avoid her now.
but guys is my problem.
i want to know what to do
i am confused because i want to believe i moved on from guy one, guy 2 is my xbf as well and guy 3 try to get with me.
guy one is talking to me because he wants to come clean.
guy two wants to be with me, and he will be there no matter what, i told me i had sex with some one else and he is there no matter what.
and guy 3 i dont know what to do with him
i try but its hard. and i dont know whether i am in love or not any more.