Hello. I was wondering what anyone's opinion is on young marriage. I am very young and i want to marry my boyfriend really bad. I can not imagine being anyone else. The only thing that is stopping me is that I care too much what other people think. I feel that nobody is going to think that we are going to work out because we are young. He's 22 and I am 19. I know that I want to be with him and I always suggest that we should wait a couple of years until we get married. I feel that we will work out because (I know this may sound dumb) our love for eachother is almost crazy. I also realize that nobody knows what their future holds for them. Sh*t happens. What do you all think?
i think that you are feeling the way you should and i say there is no age on love. i feel the same way about my boyfriend and people say the exact same thing we are tooyoung and blah blah blah!! who cares what everyone else thinks, its what you and the man you have to be with for the rest of your life thinks if you two feel your ready i say do it and you have my blessings everything will work out fine good luck!!!
thank you so much...i feel so much better now..
I got married when I was 17 years, and my boy friend was 21 years. I have 21 years now and I feel that I still love my husband. But his personality change, I changed... although I am not with him I believe that you have to grow up before u get married and not grow up while married. Just really think about marriage its something really big. Just analize the person alot before u marry someone. Even when u think u really know the person it will change in some years.. also they may don't want to achieve nothing in life and maybe you do.
Understand that you are a teenager and you have to know what you will probably grow up of the relationship instead of in it.
Understand that you are a teenager and you have to know what you will probably grow up of the relationship instead of in it.
I got married at 20 years old and my husband was 23. I don't regret a day that I married him. People told me I was too young and was making a mistake. I still love my husband dearly. Only you can know what's best for you. If you know this is something you want and you know that it's right, go with it.
thanx..well i know what i want and thats to be with him..it just gets tough when every one is totally doubting us...we dont plan on getting married for a little while but at least now i know that when we do i shouldnt care about what anyone says...
Only you know what is best for you. I'm 18, and my boyfriend is 18 and we are actually married and completely happy. :) everyone told us in 7th grade we would not last. But I'm a senior in high school now and we are together and happy. Don't let anyone dictate your life. Do what you want to do. <3 best of luck
It's me again. I totally forgot about this post. Well I am 23 years old now and I did marry my boyfriend. We have been married for 3 years. We now have a 6 month old baby girl an we are very happy. I am happy that I followed my heart because i love my husband very much. I learned that once I did what I felt was right, everyone who had an opinion shut up. Thanks for everyone's nice comments.
Ok, if you want to be with him... There is no age that is the "right" age fora triage! My husband knew each other for a total of three months when we got married! He was 19 and I was 18! We are now 42 years old and still madly in love! People said we would not last 6 months to a year! I wonder how those words are tasting almost 24 years later! Anyway, I say when you know feel you are ready and he is the right guy! Just do it! Good luck!