Okay, so I have this friend, and we both like eachother...
He doesn't know this, but I am planning on having sex with him..
I want to, but I'm still skeptical about it. It's like, I get aroused when I think
about it and I feel, at that moment, that I really, really want to do it.
Then I think about all the other possible things that could happen like:
bleeding, pregnancy, diseases, infections, etc. and it makes me think twice...
I guess my question is, am I ready? Or not?
Based on the information that I just gave, would you
say that I am ready to have sex? I also think that I would be uncomfortable
doing this with him. Like, I wouldn't know how to move, or do anything..
I would just feel awkward looking into his face with a dumb expression..
So please supply me with some information regarding this question.
Thanks! !
He doesn't know this, but I am planning on having sex with him..
I want to, but I'm still skeptical about it. It's like, I get aroused when I think
about it and I feel, at that moment, that I really, really want to do it.
Then I think about all the other possible things that could happen like:
bleeding, pregnancy, diseases, infections, etc. and it makes me think twice...
I guess my question is, am I ready? Or not?
Based on the information that I just gave, would you
say that I am ready to have sex? I also think that I would be uncomfortable
doing this with him. Like, I wouldn't know how to move, or do anything..
I would just feel awkward looking into his face with a dumb expression..
So please supply me with some information regarding this question.
Thanks! !
i think you are ready. just use protection and all the pregnancy and infections go away :-P. some girls bleed but others dont. the girl i had sex with last summer it was her first and she bled for a couple of days, but very little. also if you take it easy and gentile you dont have to be an expert. if he knows half of what he is doing you should be fine. sex between friends is the best. i`m in this kind of relationship right now with a classmate. we do it whenever we want to and its all good.
Hi - how old are you? How old is he? Do you know if he is still a virgin?
First - don't even consider it without using condoms!!! It seems by your list of fears that you don't plan on using protection - that would NOT be a smart decision at all!!!!
So - it sounds like you are physically very ready to do it! Mentally I'm not so sure. Your first time, you would be unsure exactly what to do - but a lot of it does come naturally once you are in "the moment".
There are a lot of things you two can do short of having actual sex also - so don't feel there is a need to rush it. If you feel a need to explore things with him sexually, try masturbating together, progress to masturbating each other when you're comfortable...then maybe oral sex. Take your time, and work up to where you are comfortable as you go.
When it comes down to it - your age would play a major part of that decision for me...but all-in-all YOU are the one who has to make the decision for yourself, without pressure from ANYONE either way. Whatever you decide, make sure YOU are VERY comfortable with it - because once it's done, you can not go back an un-do it...good, bad or indifferent!
First - don't even consider it without using condoms!!! It seems by your list of fears that you don't plan on using protection - that would NOT be a smart decision at all!!!!
So - it sounds like you are physically very ready to do it! Mentally I'm not so sure. Your first time, you would be unsure exactly what to do - but a lot of it does come naturally once you are in "the moment".
There are a lot of things you two can do short of having actual sex also - so don't feel there is a need to rush it. If you feel a need to explore things with him sexually, try masturbating together, progress to masturbating each other when you're comfortable...then maybe oral sex. Take your time, and work up to where you are comfortable as you go.
When it comes down to it - your age would play a major part of that decision for me...but all-in-all YOU are the one who has to make the decision for yourself, without pressure from ANYONE either way. Whatever you decide, make sure YOU are VERY comfortable with it - because once it's done, you can not go back an un-do it...good, bad or indifferent!