hi,
i am a 17 year old girl and i had sex with my bf. ive only been on birth control for 3 months and the condom broke and my period still isnt here. i will admit that my periods are not regular because of all the things i do im stressed alot but im afraid to tell my parents that i might be pregnant. is there a way of knowing for sure without a test done? and i know its horrible but if i am is there a humane way of causing a miscarrage? like some sort of tea or over exercise? i have a job but it barely supports everything i do now. i just cant afford a baby. and neither can my bf. im really scared and i dont know what to do. please help me.
terrified teen
How late is your period? Did you notice any very light spotting?
Without testing, there is no way to know if you are pregnant. There is no safe way to induce abortion, if you are pregnant, either. Please don't consider doing anything - yet.
Birth control is very effective if you take it as directed, over 98% effective.
You said your periods are irregular. Hang in there.
yes there has been some spotting. i am 4 days late. i know there isn't a safe way to have an abortion. is there a way to make my period happen sooner?
I'm praying often that my birth control will keep me safe. but i am scared.
thanks for being nice to me.
medic-dan wrote:
Hi Guest,
How late is your period? Did you notice any very light spotting?
Without testing, there is no way to know if you are pregnant. There is no safe way to induce abortion, if you are pregnant, either. Please don't consider doing anything - yet.
Birth control is very effective if you take it as directed, over 98% effective.
You said your periods are irregular. Hang in there.
hi,
yes there has been some spotting. i am 4 days late. i know there isn't a safe way to have an abortion. is there a way to make my period happen sooner?
I'm praying often that my birth control will keep me safe. but i am scared.
thanks for being nice to me.
When did you have the spotting?
Since you are late you can take a home test. If you can't afford one, there may be a family planning clinic, or similar, nearby that can help you. Just follow all directions VERY carefully when you take the test. Always use your first morning urine. It's more concentrated so more likely to give you an accurate result.
No, there is no way to make your period come sooner.
Hang in there. You will get through this
Please let us know the outcome.
Good luck.
i just want to say thanks for the prayers cause my period is here. i don't think i've ever been so happy to have it. thanks for not being mean and understanding what i was going through.
=)
Be safe!