hello everyone....in just over 2 months i am getting married, yes it will be my first time and first night, i am virgin , in our society we have sex after marriage and we dont talk about it much. so what is my problem i have no clue how to behave or what to do, what would he expect, etc and i am scared. any advice will be appreciated...
thanks
Ok you have not told us your age but that is OK.
First question in return is? Do you have any fantasies about your first time or or this night? a library may have some books, but I don't think so, but at book stores there are sections on this topic in the self help areas, look around and find one or two of the books you like by reading different parts of them first, You have about 7 weeks to read any thing from the book store, so take your time on this, like you should on "your first time ins"
Next make plenty of time to enjoy both of your-selfs, do not "just jump into bed". oral -by word of mouth - to him and to you from him and plan kissing is a whole lot of fun also.
Then have plenty of a water base lube on hand, use the whole tube if needed, a old towel of your own, so you will have something to bleed on and throw away afterwards, and some form of female birth control, as I know a co-worker, living with her, went on their honeymoon, and she got pregnante that week, after all the fooling around before their marriage. (that is another topic)
RT :-S
Congratulations on the wedding plans
First question in return is? Do you have any fantasies about your first time or or this night? a library may have some books, but I don't think so, but at book stores there are sections on this topic in the self help areas, look around and find one or two of the books you like by reading different parts of them first, You have about 7 weeks to read any thing from the book store, so take your time on this, like you should on "your first time ins"
Next make plenty of time to enjoy both of your-selfs, do not "just jump into bed". oral -by word of mouth - to him and to you from him and plan kissing is a whole lot of fun also.
Then have plenty of a water base lube on hand, use the whole tube if needed, a old towel of your own, so you will have something to bleed on and throw away afterwards, and some form of female birth control, as I know a co-worker, living with her, went on their honeymoon, and she got pregnante that week, after all the fooling around before their marriage. (that is another topic)
RT :-S
Congratulations on the wedding plans
thanks dear...i am 25years old. Actually they dont sell here book here about first night etc, so that is the bad news.
what do you mean by water base lube and why do you use it?
omm i was thinking to ask also but the bird control thing, what do you recommend, condom is a no no i cant ask him to use it, so any suggestion a safe one, because i heard some of them make one fat.
i will stop asking question because i just sound like a fool and so lose, any extra information you can give is appreciated. thanks
what do you mean by water base lube and why do you use it?
omm i was thinking to ask also but the bird control thing, what do you recommend, condom is a no no i cant ask him to use it, so any suggestion a safe one, because i heard some of them make one fat.
i will stop asking question because i just sound like a fool and so lose, any extra information you can give is appreciated. thanks
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