Hi everyone, im a 23 and a virgin. i was in a relationship with someone who i was beginin to fall in love with, me and him went far as him fingering me, on one ocassion i was bleeding. i guess this was due 2 ppl bein hard or something. but after that we stoped seeing eachother this is because i am too scared of having sex. i am so nervous of what will happen on the first time. i have read awful stories on first times which have made me think no no no. can u pls xplain how to keep calm and relax while he takes control? and if i was to bleed again, how bad will it be? what do i need to watch out for?
My 1st time it was very little pain and i didnt bleed...but i have heard many people say the didnt bleed and it only hurt them little, but i have heard of people bleeding but not bad.