when can i take a pregnancy test?

again perfectly understandable. but keep in mind that anyguy can b a dad but not all of them can be a father. in other words in one can get a girl pregnant but that doesnt make him a dad or doesnt mean he should b one. if this guy becomes a total (excuse my language) ass hole and doesnt stick around o well. who is to say he was gonna be a good father anyway. i know you are young and i have also had the misfortune of my father not being there. but i had something just as good. i had a grandfather who loved me and saw me and took me as his daughter. if you have a brother or uncle or just any family member that would be willing to take that role it wont be the same i know but it will be just a good. and theres also the chances of a good step father. im not saying if he runs off go out lookin for a father for the child but if someone is willing to love you and that child just the same as the biological father should then thats the real father of that baby

um i totaly get what your saying... id rather it be the dad that was there for the kid but if that is what it would take then yeah i get it.... but that's not me saying that i would be going baby baby shopping because that would be a little messed up o.O if my mom lets me im going to go to the "commons" and eat breackfast with one of my bffs and then go to a clinic so that i can get an actual pregnancy test .. the ones that i have taken so far have all come out negative but i think that i took them to early ... so then ill walk to school and tell that dad wether im prego or not.... my mom finaly came around she's starting to understan :| and that's good .... i have a question for you and you dont have to answer it if you dont want to or feel comforetable doing so but... were you scared when you thought that you were pregnant or when you actualy were?

i was terrified. when i first lost my virginity i was absolutly sure i wasnt then when i found out my heart dropped and my world shattered all around me. i cried for days not knowing what to do. i mean i was 14 my first pregnancy and there was the thought of school and how i would take care of a child because i come from an extremely poor family. but after a while i came to like the idea of mother hood and accepted it. but at 3 months i miscarried and once again my heart broke. i wanted my child and almost an intire four years later i still do. i got pregnant a second time back in january and i was actually excited because i was getting a second chance but the father had already broken up with me at that point. my plan was to never tell him because he left me for another woman and they were getting married and r actually married now. one of my friends told him of my pregnancy and he made my life hell until i got an abortion and eventually i gave in. if i had never got that abortion in one month i would be a mom. if i regret anything in my life its getting that abortion and not having ether of my children is the hardest thing for me to go through. so if you are pregnant it is scary and ull find yourself in situations where u feel stuck but trust me you will love mother hood. i dont have my own children but my 6 year old brother calls me mom and i used to take care of him before i left for college. its hard but worth it. keep that in mind.

thanx ... im really and trully sorry for you ... even though i might not be a mother i already feel atached to what might or might not be growing in my tummy... i took a pregnanct test this morning and it came out negative ... it had been 14 days since i could have concived and to be honest i think that i was disapointed when it came out negative :( i still think that i might be because i still have most of the symptomes... but i think that i could just be denial... my friends are happy though and i sorta am... but there's still that part of my that is crying inside for a baby .. and i know that's wrong and i witsh i didnt feel that way but i sorta do :(

bay bay 29 wrote:

blondebaby wrote:

i was terrified. when i first lost my virginity i was absolutly sure i wasnt then when i found out my heart dropped and my world shattered all around me. i cried for days not knowing what to do. i mean i was 14 my first pregnancy and there was the thought of school and how i would take care of a child because i come from an extremely poor family. but after a while i came to like the idea of mother hood and accepted it. but at 3 months i miscarried and once again my heart broke. i wanted my child and almost an intire four years later i still do. i got pregnant a second time back in january and i was actually excited because i was getting a second chance but the father had already broken up with me at that point. my plan was to never tell him because he left me for another woman and they were getting married and r actually married now. one of my friends told him of my pregnancy and he made my life hell until i got an abortion and eventually i gave in. if i had never got that abortion in one month i would be a mom. if i regret anything in my life its getting that abortion and not having ether of my children is the hardest thing for me to go through. so if you are pregnant it is scary and ull find yourself in situations where u feel stuck but trust me you will love mother hood. i dont have my own children but my 6 year old brother calls me mom and i used to take care of him before i left for college. its hard but worth it. keep that in mind.

thanx ... im really and trully sorry for you ... even though i might not be a mother i already feel atached to what might or might not be growing in my tummy... i took a pregnanct test this morning and it came out negative ... it had been 14 days since i could have concived and to be honest i think that i was disapointed when it came out negative :( i still think that i might be because i still have most of the symptomes... but i think that i could just be denial... my friends are happy though and i sorta am... but there's still that part of my that is crying inside for a baby .. and i know that's wrong and i witsh i didnt feel that way but i sorta do :(

its perfectly normal to feel that way. i felt the same at times i thought i was pregnnat and wasnt. but if its been 14 days thats 2 weeks and ur body hasnt produced and pregnancy horomones yet. during the first two weeks u arent really pregnant. thats when the sperm is still fertilizing the egg and its just a tiny cell in the body. to its way to soon. like i said before wait 3 more weeks. if you have a period in that time u should b fine if you dont then take one again. i know its hard to keep waiting but u will have too

blondebaby wrote:

bay bay 29 wrote:

blondebaby wrote:

i was terrified. when i first lost my virginity i was absolutly sure i wasnt then when i found out my heart dropped and my world shattered all around me. i cried for days not knowing what to do. i mean i was 14 my first pregnancy and there was the thought of school and how i would take care of a child because i come from an extremely poor family. but after a while i came to like the idea of mother hood and accepted it. but at 3 months i miscarried and once again my heart broke. i wanted my child and almost an intire four years later i still do. i got pregnant a second time back in january and i was actually excited because i was getting a second chance but the father had already broken up with me at that point. my plan was to never tell him because he left me for another woman and they were getting married and r actually married now. one of my friends told him of my pregnancy and he made my life hell until i got an abortion and eventually i gave in. if i had never got that abortion in one month i would be a mom. if i regret anything in my life its getting that abortion and not having ether of my children is the hardest thing for me to go through. so if you are pregnant it is scary and ull find yourself in situations where u feel stuck but trust me you will love mother hood. i dont have my own children but my 6 year old brother calls me mom and i used to take care of him before i left for college. its hard but worth it. keep that in mind.

thanx ... im really and trully sorry for you ... even though i might not be a mother i already feel atached to what might or might not be growing in my tummy... i took a pregnanct test this morning and it came out negative ... it had been 14 days since i could have concived and to be honest i think that i was disapointed when it came out negative :( i still think that i might be because i still have most of the symptomes... but i think that i could just be denial... my friends are happy though and i sorta am... but there's still that part of my that is crying inside for a baby .. and i know that's wrong and i witsh i didnt feel that way but i sorta do :(

its perfectly normal to feel that way. i felt the same at times i thought i was pregnnat and wasnt. but if its been 14 days thats 2 weeks and ur body hasnt produced and pregnancy horomones yet. during the first two weeks u arent really pregnant. thats when the sperm is still fertilizing the egg and its just a tiny cell in the body. to its way to soon. like i said before wait 3 more weeks. if you have a period in that time u should b fine if you dont then take one again. i know its hard to keep waiting but u will have too

>:( im ussualy am a pretty pationt person... just not about this ... my friend thinks that i would be crazy to keep it my other friend would do anything to have me keep it and my mom says that if i dont have an abortion then i have to give it up for adoption... i know that i could do any of those to thing but i dont really know what it takes to be a grate mom, im 15 and do really have many options for jobs, the baby dady is even younger then i am so it would be even harder then it would be for me, my family doesnt have enough money for another mouth and i will need to really have to make a crazy schedule !! and all of that and more being conciderd ... i would still keep it :( sigh* any input on that?

really it is your choice but if you feel u can not keep him or her there is always the option of open adoption. pretty much someone else takes care of ur child and u get updates on ur child and they send you pictures. but the only thing about that is sometimes the adoptions will close because its what the adoptive parents want. really this isnt something i can tell you wat to do its really wat u feel is rite. but if u do choose adoption remember the more time u spend with your child the harder it is to give them away

I'm 17 years old, and I think I am pregnant. I don't know when I should take a test. What is the most accurate kind?