Hey guys and girls more importantly,Im just wondering when you actually start going out with a woman how and when do you think the subject of sex should be initiated? For me its not something I need to rush into but at the same time I just feel that if the relationship goes on and on and no one is bringing up the subject of sex well it may feel awquard.Or perhaps with most people maybe it just comes naturally???
It's been a long time since I had to consider a new relationship but here's how it always worked for me with the girls I dated.
At first I listened to my mother's advice: "don't touch a girl there, or there". How wrong she was!!! I lost 2 girls before I figured out they all want to be touched there, and there. The first one kept putting my hand where she wanted it and I kept moving it away. When she left me I decided I was doing it wrong and my mother must have been wrong too.
We never talked about it. I just slid my hand to where I wanted to and they always responded with enjoying it. I had one girl who knew exactly what she wanted and was not shy about letting me know. On our second date she sat next to me as soon as she got in the car and reached right into my pants to grab what she wanted to play with. As soon as I found a place to park she shoved my face where she wanted it.
So I never found any discussion was needed, we just kind of went for what we wanted. I never stopped the girl and none of them stopped me. Of course intercourse was not part of that. That needs to be by mutual agreement but touching and mutual masturbation is something you just feel out.