please know what you are talking about before you post to forums. there are young folks reading these things, and need accurate information.
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my breast are so sore and i experienece a burning sensation, very uncomfterble, so i squeeze them and some clear fluid came out. I also have naseau; my stomach is upset most of the time and for the first time i havent broke out like i do when i am about to get my period..well my period should come in 2 days so im waiting till then to take another pregnancy test because i took a test 4 days ago but it came out negative...i read that all woman are diffent, so maybe my pregnancy hormones arent enough to be shown yet in a pregnancy test? i really hope i am pregnant. i have been trying to concieve for 9months..well feel free to give me comments or suggestions. thanks :-)
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Even though the sperm hits the vagina, it wouldn't have been deep enough to reach the egg right?
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Guest wrote:
Lavagirl's information does not seem to have much research (in regards to pulling out).
Pulling out is actually an EFFECTIVE WAY to prevent pregnancy as long as it is preformed correctly. Pre-Cum generally tends to have VERRY LITTLE viable sperm in it, and the only way it could possibly have a considerable amount is if your partner has ejaculated directly prior to unprotected intercourse. If your partner does ejaculate prior to unprotected intercourse he is to thoroughly clean himself, and urinate.
It is best to pull out a couple of minute prior to male ejaculation, and to deal with it in a different manner, such as having him cum on your stomach, blowjob, etc. Or not at all. Whatever you and your partner choose.
While I'm not advocating unprotected sex using the pull out method, many people have used it with great success. The prevention rate is in the 90% range, along with Condoms, and birth control. It does not protect agains ANY STDs or HIV, however.
Beg to differ!! Lavagirl is quite correct! I found out the hard way! I too got pregnant this way.
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That being said, Im also saddened that some don't already have the knowledge of how babies are conceived! Please go to your libraries, or again your local doctor's office and pick up some literature and Read it as many time as it takes for you to comprehend! please be informed, if nothing else than to prove wrong some of the ignorance that's posted on the Web. Those who are not on Birth Control, GET ON IT but remember that while you may not get pregnant (99.% if used correctly) you are 100% Susceptible to contracting a STD by not using a condom!
I am no means Miss High & Mighty and have had very few scary (what if) moments but these posts o.O I must say, are quite "interesting" to say the least.
Thank you to those who POSTED CORRECT ADVICE! Someone out there is definitely reading this info and will take it for TRUTH! To all my less knowledgeable folks, please please please Practice Safe SEX and in the event that you don't -speak with someone who knows what they're talking about... Not everything posted on the WEB is accurate information. :'(
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And, the above poster was also correct in that the effectiveness of the withdrawal method, when used PERFECTLY, is somewhere in the mid-90% range.
HOWEVER, many people (i.e., probably most of you--but not all--who will say that you conceived using the withdrawal method) do not perform it perfectly. The male MUST pull out well before ejaculation and urinate after every ejaculation so as to prevent sperm from remaining in the urethra. For this reason, the male must be very well in-tune with his orgasm and should have some control over it. This is why it is a less effective method for young men, men who are prone to premature ejaculation, and the like. It can be quite effective for practiced couples, but I would definitely NOT recommend it for young (esp. teenaged couples), non-monogamous relationships, people who want to prevent STD transmission, or if either person in the relationship is not comfortable with the method. It should also not be used for girl-on-top positions, as it is more difficult for the woman to know when to "dismomunt" at the right moment.
Those of you who have "done your research" have not been "researching" the correct way to garner accurate information. Everything I have said so far has been demonstrated empirically; if you disagree with it, I urge you to find peer-reviewed, scientific articles to challenge my assertions.
As with any form of birth control, there will ALWAYS be people for whom it has failed. Plenty of women have gotten pregnant using the pill perfectly, with an IUD, or even using multiple forms of contraception in tandem. This is because NO FORM of contraception is 100% effective; statistically, there are people who have conceived using every form of birth control. Just because it did not work for you does not mean that it is 100% ineffective. Out of every 100 women who use the withdrawal method perfectly, 6 of them will become pregnant after a year. If you're comfortable with those odds, do not have to prevent STD transmission, and are prepared to face the consequences if you're one of the 6% who falls pregnant, then by all means, practice the withdrawal method. If you'd like more protection, try condoms (2-3 women out of every 100 using them will become pregnant after a year of use), hormonal birth control (4 out of every 1,000 will become pregnant), or the "buddy system" (using 2+ methods at once--condoms + withdrawal, for example. 2 out of every 1,000 will become pregnant that way, statistically).
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