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I had my last period on april 10th and I have regular sex with my boyfriend about 2 to 3 times a week without a condom and he never pulls out. On april 24th I made a huge mistake and slept with my ex. He was not wearing a condom but he did pull out. I'm nervous because i was with my ex exactly 2 weeks after my period and I guess that's when you ovulate. I had gone to the doctor on May 26th and she estimated I'm 7 weeks along. Who is more likely to be the father?
I will have to guess that your boyfriend is more likely to be the father for the simple fact that he has been having unprotected sex with you very frequently, even though there is a slight chance that your ex could be the father. Paternity DNA testing can easily resolve the issue.
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Well i think that your boyfriend is one that has far more chances of being a father of your baby. It has only past 4 week after your sex with ex, and doctor has estimated that you are 7 weeks pregnant. You can never be sure until you do DNA test, to see who is really the father.
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I agree with what other people have posted. Your boyfriend is most likely the father, although it is possible that your ex could also be the father. I know that this is quite a predicament because to determine the child's father you will have to talk to your boyfriend about the situation and get him and your ex to consent to a DNA test. Good luck to you, and keep us posted.
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Hi Lily: When your doctor states that you are "7 weeks alon" that means that it is 7 weeks since your last period - April 10th, NOT that you have been pregnant for 7 weeks!!! That's the 1st thing!

2nd, when it comes down to pure stats your boyfriend would stand more of a chance of being the father over your ex. Due to the amount of times plus him ejaculating in you. You and your ex practiced the "Natural Method" which is 85% to 97% effective IF and I say IF you do not have sex when you are more fertile - which unfortunately that is when you did!!, but since he did not ejaculate in you I think luck is on your side with this one. Even though it only takes 1 sperm to make it, I would hazzard a guess that you will be safe.

When you go for your 1st ultrasound, they will be able to tell you approximately how far along you are! Depending if you had sex with your boyfriend the day before or after, then it is going to be virutally impossible for you to tell!

Even though I never condone deceit, it is up to you wether or not to involve both of these men in this. There is a risky procedure that doctors can do, while the baby is invitro - to see who the father is. Or there is after the baby is born. If you know your ex's blood type and your bf's blood type. The baby will have the fathers!!! Good luck hon!!!
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I'm pregnant, and I don't know whether the father of my child-to-be is my husband or my 12-year-old son.
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