I'm a 17 year old male and I'm struggling to perform in bed with my (also 17 year old) girlfriend. We're both virgins.
She seems to be sexually turned on all the time and sometimes it can be hard to keep up with, especially since a single kiss always turns into a lot more..haha. I don't have issues getting an erection with her since they can happen almost instantly just from simply kissing her, however I tend to loose them pretty fast - especially when moving to different positions and taking breathers - and I also get conscious because of our beds creaking a lot and the fact sometimes our family are in - it's like I can't enjoy myself as much. When we do stuff, I enjoy kissing continuously, however she tends to break off and it makes me less hard (even when she's grinding on my crotch).
I often wondered whether or not my lack of maintaining an erection was due to the positioning of it, and since I have clothes on it can't exactly 'rise' since it is restrained by my boxers - then her compressing it. I'm still pretty nervous to have sex, and we've yet to remove clothes - however I have plans to make Valentines pretty 'special' which is why I am asking for advice! I'm not a very 'touchy feely' person and I respect the girl I am with a lot, so I tend to refrain from feeling her up (even though I know I shouldn't) considering how much I want to have sex with her.
Does anybody have any suggestions or thoughts on what could be causing my lack of erections? Maybe taking off her clothes would change things? Could the fact I have things restricting 'it' contribute to it not staying up? Do I need to spice things up a bit?
Thanks!