Why do guys like anal?

Hi bluesy, guys like anal because it feels very different, tight, amazing. For some it is also about domination and some love that it is taboo. Some just think because they have seen it in porn then that means everyone is doing it and they feel like they're missing out. There a few concerns in your post. You say you don't mind doing anal, but that your bf has been adamant and that his hassling you about it is annoying you. You dont have to do this if you don't want to. It is your body. It is ok to say NO. if he can't accept that he is being disrespectful. And if he is being disrespectful about this and putting his desires before your needs then what else will he be selfish and disrespectful about in the future? You both have to want this. If you don't, then say NO. If he becomes difficult about this then it gives you a good clue as to what he will be like about other issues in your relationship. He should accept NO gracefully. If he can't that is telling you a lot about his personality. Ask him would he like you to use a dildo on him anally. I am not against anal sex. I am a woman and I love it. I just can't stand it when boys pressure their unwilling partners into doing something they are not interested in. Sex has to be about respect. if you do decide to go ahead, and it must be your choice, then don't just rush into it. Lube, lube, condoms, and did I mention lube are essential. Make sure he has taken lots of time to really get you turned on. You need to be really relaxed, he must be sober. At first have him insert just one very lubed up finger, with lots of lube on you too. Make him do it slow and gentle, over time he can insert 2 fingers, then maybe a small anal toy ( only use a toy designed for anal play). Depending on your response this might take just one day, or it might take days or weeks. He needs to be patient. I have just given you a few pointers. Do some reading on reputable websites about how to make it pleasurable and safe. And never ever go from ass to vagina unless he has been using a condom when in your ass which he removes before going into your vagina, or her washes thoroughly. You can get really nasty infections. I hope that helps.

Everything in life goes two ways, you can say no just because you need to know why or just don't feel you want or need to. You should never do it just because he wants it. In most cases the first time experience is far different for the girl than guy. Unless he takes the time to slowly stretch your sphincter it's going to hurt you and you will not want to repeat it. He will find it amazing and want it more. The key here is proper lubrication and patience. There's nothing saying you can't buy a dildo and do the same to him too, he will probably thank you once he finds out just how pleasurable it is and want it more. Just to make sure your vagina takes the front row entertainment though make sure to always keep up with strengthening your pelvic floor muscles with Kegal exercises and learn how to use those muscles to keep his mind on the things that give you more from vaginal sex.