OKay here I go..... My husband and I have sex quite often and in the beginning I am very.... uuuuhhh..... wet. then my mind will get side tracked with something else like the kids or did I turn off the coffee pot or I hope my parents arn't stopping by later, so this will make me dry up and then I end up feeling really weird about myself . also I am still working off the weight from my 2nd child, so when we are able to have sex we wait till it's nap time or bed time for the little ones. even if I don't let my mind wonder my vagina will dry up and my husband thinks it is him that is turning my off when that is no the case at all, trust me he is awesome. Please help not even ky helps my vagina just drinks it up and it back to being a dessert.. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! thnx :-(
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My advice would be to keep your mind on the task at hand (excuse the pun) and not other things. I think in another topic someone asked how come I can't maintain an erection and the answer was that it's because that person had a mentality that he could and this was reflected in his stamina, so to speak. I think the same too can be said for your situation-- if your mind wonders from the sex then you're going to lose that drive and thus become dry again. I think the best thing to do would be to clear your mind before sex and when having sex stay focused and enjoy the sex as oppose to worrying about other things.
Hope that helps,
Hamlisch.
Hope that helps,
Hamlisch.
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Is your husband circumcised? A circumcised penis will pull out all of your natural lube every time it is coming out of the vagina. Foreskin on a penis is a very important part of sex as the foreskin covers the head on the way out of the vagina and it doesn't pull the lube out. It is very common for women to start hurting and feeling dry a couple minutes into having sex. Maybe your husband could look into restoring his foreskin.
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