after i finish materbating i feel really bad about what i did while doing it i feel good it's just that after-effect which i regret deeply. whats wrong with me?
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What kind of thoughts are you having? Are they linked to anything you have been told about masturbation? Have your parents talked to you about masturbation or friends or anybody. Some years ago when sex, as well as masturbation was taboo topic, people used to talk negative and bad things to children, so that they wouldn’t do it. It was considered to be dirty and infamous. People used to make up all sorts of stories to scare the children and teens when they have been doing it too.
This is probably where you got the regret-feeling. In some cultures, masturbation is still considered to be dirty and infamous.
However, in developed society, masturbation is no longer a taboo but something that we see in films and hear about every day. Doctors say it is healthy and recommended, that it makes us get rid of sexual tension and experience pleasure, which are positive effects on both human body and mind.
So, as long as you are not over doing it ( a couple of times a day, every day), there is no point of feeling any regret or shame. You shouldn’t feel regret even if you are overdoing it, it’s just that you may become tired and not want it anymore.
This is probably where you got the regret-feeling. In some cultures, masturbation is still considered to be dirty and infamous.
However, in developed society, masturbation is no longer a taboo but something that we see in films and hear about every day. Doctors say it is healthy and recommended, that it makes us get rid of sexual tension and experience pleasure, which are positive effects on both human body and mind.
So, as long as you are not over doing it ( a couple of times a day, every day), there is no point of feeling any regret or shame. You shouldn’t feel regret even if you are overdoing it, it’s just that you may become tired and not want it anymore.
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This is very common, and certainly linked to cultural and/or religious beliefs. There were even a few studies done on the topic of cultural beliefs around masturbation and how masturbation makes people feel in that context. Perhaps looking those up can help you understand better why you feel the way you do, and remedy the feeling?
In the meantime....
Is masturbation bad for health? Nope. The opposite.
Is masturbation sinful? At the very least, you get to interpret your own religious tradition, if any.
Is masturbation shameful? Well, if so, 99.999% of all people are shameful.
There's nothing wrong with you. There's something wrong with the outdated taboo around masturbation.
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hey im 14 and i started masterbating when i was 12 or so, and i discovered porn when i was 10. Now i feel bad after masterbating, but only for the past year or so. when it was new it was great. i think it is becuase some adolesent chemical you get released in ur head (i dont know wtf im talking about) and it mkes u feel bad idk but i was never told about masterbation from my parents.
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hey that happens to me too i dont know why either and i hate it like im perfectly fine with it until after then i feel weird and bad.
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probaly has to do with the one guys post like if you masterbate all the time your body has increased tolerance to dopamine
(brain pleasure chemical) so its does not feel as good anymore or maybe somethign with serotonin (another brain chemical)
I dont know the specifics btu its probalyl something like that.
(brain pleasure chemical) so its does not feel as good anymore or maybe somethign with serotonin (another brain chemical)
I dont know the specifics btu its probalyl something like that.
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i used to feel guilty too, but then i saw this film, and in it, these 2 people had sex, in the morning, the girl was just staring at teh phone. the guy looked at her, since she had a distance look and he said "whats wrong, feeling guilty? dont worry about it, that wont happen eventually." it was something like that but its like it somehow snapped me outta it? i guess it was just a phase for me, but maybe this might help you guys! good luck with it!
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...omg the reason you feel bad is because you just used your hand to reach orgasm. What your body really wanted all along was to be beside a woman, cuddle, have sex, and most of all for your penis to be inside a vagina, not a hand. Thus after you just finished, when you no longer are caught up in the good feeling of masturbation, you feel guilty. Because personally, if a girl is pleasuring me, i don't feel at all bad after i bust. it's all psychological.
well at least thats the way i see it.
well at least thats the way i see it.
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A mate of mine calls this feeling PEDS (Post Ejaculation Depression Syndrome), totally normal it is the male reaction that also includes drowsiness so that you can recharge to sow your oats elsewhere.
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the same thing happens to me aswell, its weird, i dont know if its what i'm jerking fof to or just the fact i am masterbaiting, but after i tend to feel abit down
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i feel bad too after i masterbate and get turned off by the porn i am watching.. it's the feeling like i didn't to study for a test and just woke up the next day to take the test 2 hours from now...i not have any clue why i feel like i am disappointing myself or something...it feels wrong...and im not religious or anything so i shouldn't feel bad about doing it.
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