if your too good for someone you probably know that for it shows you shouldnt be with your boyfriend the first sign of disrespect. break up and stay with the person whos making u happy. i know its a hard dicission but it really isnt hard if you use common sence. dont tolerate being treated any less then you think u should. a relationship like yours isnt real especially if your not "in love" no point being in a relationship that hurts your suposed to be happy thats the point of relationships thats what i mean its not real cuz your not happy. start something good with this new person
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in my 1st reply i forgot to mention that even tho not everyone will agree with me thats how i feel about it but i forgot to mention if it ever came down to a person a really did care about and loved there would be no cheating not one time not even think about it cuz thats not what u do to people you love and i think for relationship to be a relationship both people gotta feel that way about each other then you wont have to worry about cheating but if your stupid and make a mistake (nobodys perfect) dont be even more stupid and tell on yourself. that would ruin the good relationship you have cuz you know whoever your with is gonna have the same reaction as you probably would if you didnt make that mistake and it was the other way around cuz the feelings mutual dont forget but alot of people are stupid and make mistakes for so for all those people like i said dont be even more stupid and do something like tell on yourself
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a girl once you to give her 100 dollars everyday lol classic... she also doesnt want you to ask for it just give it to her when she wants it lol.
I cheated because once I was in I couldnt get out lol joking
I cheated because I suspected that my girl was cheating on me, because she was never around when I need her, If I asked her something I was wrong to ask her that, and because she was too sure that she had complete possession over me, but dont worry she left me and then came back because she realized her mistakes and also found out that out there guys are far worse than me so yea, we got married and now we are living our own little happily ever after :| hahaha if you can call it that.
I cheated because once I was in I couldnt get out lol joking
I cheated because I suspected that my girl was cheating on me, because she was never around when I need her, If I asked her something I was wrong to ask her that, and because she was too sure that she had complete possession over me, but dont worry she left me and then came back because she realized her mistakes and also found out that out there guys are far worse than me so yea, we got married and now we are living our own little happily ever after :| hahaha if you can call it that.
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i never cheated but ..haveing a GF that takes you away from friends work and family and never leaves you alone always board has many problems and shes like a leech....i would cheat..but cant ...its against everything i am and i cant break up with her ...shes a cutter and will kill herself so ....yeah...
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People cheat for many different reasons. I also believe it is VERY disrespectful to yourself and your partner.
Even though i feel that way, I still cheat. I never cheated in my earlier relationships. I always got cheated on and was devistated so i know the feeling. When my bf of 2 years and i argue and he makes me feel bad thats when i have the urge to just be with another guy. usually if i'm happy i don't cheat! that's me though. i started to cheat because i thought he was. i know two wrongs don't make a right but i like revenge. i'm happy with my bf now, but i didn't trust him at all one time or another and i had my reasons. plus, i enjoy sex and i have been having sex with these 2 different guys for about 5 years (i would just rotate their schedules. for example: guy1 sees me friday and guy 2 sees me net friday) i've been seeing guy1 and 2 for so many years and we all are in our own relationships, but i don't know their reasons, but mine is because i;m not happy. i'm sure people ask 'if youre not happy why not leave?" it's easier said than done. i love him.
Even though i feel that way, I still cheat. I never cheated in my earlier relationships. I always got cheated on and was devistated so i know the feeling. When my bf of 2 years and i argue and he makes me feel bad thats when i have the urge to just be with another guy. usually if i'm happy i don't cheat! that's me though. i started to cheat because i thought he was. i know two wrongs don't make a right but i like revenge. i'm happy with my bf now, but i didn't trust him at all one time or another and i had my reasons. plus, i enjoy sex and i have been having sex with these 2 different guys for about 5 years (i would just rotate their schedules. for example: guy1 sees me friday and guy 2 sees me net friday) i've been seeing guy1 and 2 for so many years and we all are in our own relationships, but i don't know their reasons, but mine is because i;m not happy. i'm sure people ask 'if youre not happy why not leave?" it's easier said than done. i love him.
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I think we cheat when we are bored and tired of relationship. When our partner became not so interesting and can't surprise us anymore. Then we go to search adventures.
When we have long relationship there are "cold" periods when we want something new. That's why cheating happens.
But isn't it better to "update" existing love?
Good luck to everyone!
When we have long relationship there are "cold" periods when we want something new. That's why cheating happens.
But isn't it better to "update" existing love?
Good luck to everyone!
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Hey!
Cheating can have a lot of reasons. When you are bored of ur partner, when u want something new...
But I know one guy who cheated on his gf because she was too jelaous!!! Everyday she was trying to find the evedince that he is cheating, checked his mobile phone, smelt his clothes! but actually there was no reason, cause he was very honest to her.
One day he was really pissed off and thought that if she is so sure that he is cheating then.... why not to try!!!
So, sometimes we "emcourage" our partner to do bad things!!!
Cheating can have a lot of reasons. When you are bored of ur partner, when u want something new...
But I know one guy who cheated on his gf because she was too jelaous!!! Everyday she was trying to find the evedince that he is cheating, checked his mobile phone, smelt his clothes! but actually there was no reason, cause he was very honest to her.
One day he was really pissed off and thought that if she is so sure that he is cheating then.... why not to try!!!
So, sometimes we "emcourage" our partner to do bad things!!!
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I think that we like to bring our logical thinking to situations that are run by emotions. BUT, I think that MOST of us want to believe that there is a higher power called GOD. He gave us something called the 10 Commandments NOT the 10 Suggestions!!! I want to clarify that I am not a "bible thumper." I am just a man with a concience. Why is it so hard for us to follow a path of good and not bad. BOTH men and women fall victim to the "dark side." The bigger question is when we do find out why can't we Forgive and Move on?? If the spouse is Finally caught AND has a concience then why can't the other spouse Forgive and move on? I did just that! It was hard to do BUT if we cant forgive then the man upstairs cant forgive US!! This is just an observation AND food for thought. If people had a higher power to forgive then many conflicts in the world would be resolved.
G Man
G Man
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Most people cheat because they don't understand the meaning of committment and covenant anymore in America. Most couples do not know how to communicate and it leads to missunderstandings. Most people come into relationships with so much baggage that how can two people who are all messed up as individuals be in a healthy relationship? Someone said in a post that they knew some men who cheated but they loved their wives and had them up on pedastels...wow...men who love their wives don't cheat on them bottom line.
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I just have to agree with BrendaM. If you really love someone then you do not cheat. And there is also communication. Nobody anymore knows how to talk to one another and be throughly honest with one another. People get divorced so ease now. The honest communication is crucial for good loving relationship. You have to know your partner as good as you know your self.
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i found out he cheated on my with this girl, he denies it but i know he did, it hurts me still, its only been about a month though. since it has happened. he made up a stupid story and i just was in disbelief... he said he met a girl and she was all over him but he didnt do anything he showed no interest (by the way, they were both drunk)
and so just them two decided to leave and go to my boyfriends house and he suppoisdly left that girl at his friends house and left them. she ended up hooking up his friend so he says and then the reason why he didnt come home until early morning was because he broke down and a guy happened to drive by at 4 am and give him gas, i spoke with his friend and he didnt believe it, he didnt disagree or agree though... i dont understand why he did this if he did, i have done nothing to him, i try and make everything exciting and make sure he is happy. i honestly think he needs to just grow up ... he says it himself..and denies it all. he says he would never do such a thing.... :-(
and so just them two decided to leave and go to my boyfriends house and he suppoisdly left that girl at his friends house and left them. she ended up hooking up his friend so he says and then the reason why he didnt come home until early morning was because he broke down and a guy happened to drive by at 4 am and give him gas, i spoke with his friend and he didnt believe it, he didnt disagree or agree though... i dont understand why he did this if he did, i have done nothing to him, i try and make everything exciting and make sure he is happy. i honestly think he needs to just grow up ... he says it himself..and denies it all. he says he would never do such a thing.... :-(
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Hi Nicole,
What have you done regarding this?
Well if he will never grow up, I'm not sure that he is very serious then. He needs to start a family one day and he has to be a father, and if he is not grown up, how will he do this? Have you ever talked about this with him?
What have you done regarding this?
Well if he will never grow up, I'm not sure that he is very serious then. He needs to start a family one day and he has to be a father, and if he is not grown up, how will he do this? Have you ever talked about this with him?
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i never had a bf and im 15 but i think its stupid to cheat on each other i mean seriously dont datte him or her if u know ur going to cheat on them
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I recently found out that my girlfriend cheated on me with her good friend's soon to be ex wife. Yes we are gay. She cheated on me with a girl LA. Currently I am so hurt and confused I don't understand it. She claimed she would never cheat on me. She is living away for the last 8 months and we have been continuing our long distance relationship. She wanted to find friends so she decided that since LA was by herself (and her daughter) and she had no friends that my girlfriend would be her friend secretly. Well she not only was her friend but they ended up very quickly in bed and having a sexual relationship behind her friends back and mine. I am so sad and confused about it. What really kills me is that I encouraged her to go out with her friends and have fun. I just didn't mean that much fun.
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Hi All, I have cheated on most of the people I have dated and I hate it, I want it to stop now.I don't go out looking for it, it only happens when I am drunk.I have a trail of hurt left behind and it is not fair, I can only imagine how they felt.I am giving up the drink as it will ruin my life in the long run.I was dating a guy that showed me love, attention, everything and he loves me to bits. I am looking for advice off anyone on how I can fix this.I think the underlining problem goes back to when my father left when I was a kid that I am afraid to get close to anyone and let them in.I envy people that are an item, they know which direction they are going and so in love.I want that too but how can I if I cant be honest with myself!
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