My fiance busted me with porn on the computer and i was completely honest with her, almost worse than if i would have just lied to her.
I tried to explain that she doesnt always want sex when i do, she isnt always home, she is sometimes tired or so on. She automatically assumed i wasnt attracted to her anymore. She used the whole what if i watch porn ,i told her that was fine as long as when i wanted it, it was available. Guys can and 30 minutes later or less have sex if there girlfriend/wife. if they wanted it. A female gets theres and there good to go for a while. I dont understand if you know you havent givin me any in a while or been working or too tired, why would you get mad at me, she makes me feel like i did or should just go cheat on her, but thats not the case she is my love and my world. I tried to explain that im 23 and i feel like im going threw a stage were i want it everyday or more. How can i explain this to her that she will understand, we talk about watching porn together but when it comes down to it she doesnt want to, and i believe if we did it would be a arguement if i got a hardon watching porn.
Dont know what to do or a good way to explain this to her, i dont want to ruin our relationship but its something i cant help, were getting married next year and have a young son.
I tried to explain that she doesnt always want sex when i do, she isnt always home, she is sometimes tired or so on. She automatically assumed i wasnt attracted to her anymore. She used the whole what if i watch porn ,i told her that was fine as long as when i wanted it, it was available. Guys can and 30 minutes later or less have sex if there girlfriend/wife. if they wanted it. A female gets theres and there good to go for a while. I dont understand if you know you havent givin me any in a while or been working or too tired, why would you get mad at me, she makes me feel like i did or should just go cheat on her, but thats not the case she is my love and my world. I tried to explain that im 23 and i feel like im going threw a stage were i want it everyday or more. How can i explain this to her that she will understand, we talk about watching porn together but when it comes down to it she doesnt want to, and i believe if we did it would be a arguement if i got a hardon watching porn.
Dont know what to do or a good way to explain this to her, i dont want to ruin our relationship but its something i cant help, were getting married next year and have a young son.
There is nothing you can do if your going to keep watching porn you either get someone whos ok with it or not and you got unlucky.
Sure you want sex every day most man do but your girlfriend is not a machine most only want sex 3 times a week and some less then that than. The other thing is that sex you give is too rough and she doesn’t want to say anything or sex isn’t fun because theirs not enough foreplay and of course you watching porn puts her off having sex.
If you want better sex in your relationship stop watching porn, talk to her she’s yours even if you can't have sex every night you can touch her do foreplay cuddle up which is better then watching porn.
Sure you want sex every day most man do but your girlfriend is not a machine most only want sex 3 times a week and some less then that than. The other thing is that sex you give is too rough and she doesn’t want to say anything or sex isn’t fun because theirs not enough foreplay and of course you watching porn puts her off having sex.
If you want better sex in your relationship stop watching porn, talk to her she’s yours even if you can't have sex every night you can touch her do foreplay cuddle up which is better then watching porn.
You need to have control over your body, your body should not have control over you. What is more important? Your relationship or getting yourself off?
This is why I will never become partnered with anyone unless we have already developed a common masturbation habit ogether. And they should be OK watching and vice versa.
Ask her if she would masturbate with you and see if that works. She might not be comfortable with that in which case it sucks
Ask her if she would masturbate with you and see if that works. She might not be comfortable with that in which case it sucks