Worried about pregnancy, on birth control, need some help.

okay this is not a pro life/pro choice debate it is the fact that shes on birth control and thinks she may be pregnate. damn, i think you should wait a week or so and then take a regular at home pee test. and see what happens then IT IS YOUR CHOICE OF WHAT TO DO

You really should consider the thoughts and wishes of your significant other as well. I know you are the one with the final decision, but you should also take into consideration what he wants. I personally would not be able to go through an abortion. I was 18 when I became pregnant while using birthcontrol. Now my husband and I (who was my 20 year old boyfriend at the time) have a beautiful 7 year old boy. He is wonderful. I can't imagine living without him. My husband and I have been married for 7 years and have had a second child. The decision you make with affect not only you, but your boyfriend as well. Can you really kill a child just because you messed up and forgot to take your pill? How can anyone justify that? Just thought I would share my thoughts, take them with a grain of salt. You are an adult now and abortion is an easy way out, but actually having, loving, caring for the life you two have created together is the only right decision to make at this point.

I've heard of a high demand for adopting white babies...but I haven't heard of a high demand for adopting babies of another race. I just wanted to throw the thought out there for those interested....would some mothers have a hard time getting a non-white baby adopted? I respect everyone's opinion, but I'm not sure you can assure every mother that their baby will be adopted by parents who have been dying to have a child....

Don't get me wrong, it would be a terrible shame if it were true. And I'm not saying whether abortion or adoption is right...but I think it's important for suggestions to be as informative (and therefore as helpful) as possible....

Am I wrong about the adoption issue? Please add a reliable link to your comment as a reference for those who want to know either way.

I can't believe a post said that if they got pregnant they would have an abortion. How self centered are you!!! You knew what could happen when you laid on your back! Not that baby growing inside you! Do you know how many women and men out there are wanting to have a baby but can't! Think of adoption, please think of adoption!

If your going to be women enough to spread your legs and get pg then be woman enough to take care of your kids i had my first at 16 and second at 18 anyone can do it that kids didnt asked to be here or be killed you did it to the kids ...i Am totaly against it ....Get a job and take care of your kid i had a job and finished school and took care of them ...

CHOICE:
You made the choice the moment you said "yes I will have sex with you." If you are ready to be connected to a person in that way then you are ready to have a child. Sex was created for man and wife not boy and girlfriend.
I have been with my (now husband) for over five years. When we were still dating, we struggled physically. There were times that I really wanted to just give myself completely to him. Luckily, I have a man who has great self control with the help of Jesus Christ. We came very close to just letting go, but never did. I am so thankful that he cared enough about me to wait. It was so worth it on our wedding night and I feel even more connected to him than I ever have. I don't think that connection would be there if we would have done it before we said "I Do". There was too much conviction and guilt. Because we we dealt with the temptations and pulled through, I understand even more why that type of "love" or intimacy was meant for a husband and his wife. It means so much and is now a blessing instead of a temptation. When I have sex with my husband, it is pure and beautiful and RIGHT.
If you choose to have sex before being united in marraige you are asking for trouble whether you use protection or not. That first choice of yes or no answers more than one question: to have sex? and to have a baby? If you answer yes to one then you say yes to the other. You have already made your choice, now see it through. Within the first two weeks of pregnancy, 46 tiny chromosomes combine to determine exactly what your baby is going to look like. Within three weeks you baby already has a spinal column, backbone, and even a nervous systom (it feels!!). By day 21 your baby's heart can be heard and its brain has began to grow. Before you even know you are pregnant or even think it, your baby is growing inside you and already has a personality. How can a person terminate something so unique and so special? That baby is a part of you!
If you think you are not ready to have a baby at this point in your life, you need to practice a different type of birth control...self control!! Wait to have that kind of intimacy with your husband. Then, not only will you be pure, but you will also be ready for anything.

God Bless and good luck in your decisions!
A person who cares

Woohoo for you little miss holy. Not every one believes in God so don't try to push your religion on the world. Many historians believe that the only reason Jesus even prophesised that belief is to protect women, who at the time had no say in their own sex lives for some even after they got married. We live in a new day and age now where women have more power and choice. I agree that sex is a big decision for each person, that they must make on their own, but it does not truly go hand in hand with deciding to become pregnant, even married couples have sex when they don't want a baby. It is each girl's own readiness for sexual activity, reliogious beliefs, and connection with their partner that should factor into their decision. Now we have more controll over that matter, birth controll. It is obviously best to use more than one (why increase your risk?). It is unprotected sex that forces you to make the choice: Sex? yes, then Baby? yes

I too am worried about being pregnant. At 16 I am no where ready for a baby though I do believe that my boyfriend and I could make it through a pregnancy and hopefully keep the child. I am on birth controll and we always use condoms but for the last couple days i have been feeling nacious and am worried that it may be a pregnancy symptom. It is about 4 weeks since the last time we had sex. Is it too early for me to tell? How likely is it that I could be pregnant? When can I take an at home pregnancy test?

Ok first off if you want a baby you should get your tubes tied. If you lay with someone you should take the responsibility for your actions. If not then you should give the baby up for adoption because there are many families out there that want a child but cant have one. Second abortion should be illegal there are consiquences for every action so take the responsibility for your actions.

Wow. I cannot believe how unfair of a debate this is. She did not ask for a debate. She did not even ask whether or not she should have an abortion. She seems like a fairly intelligent girl, and I am sure she knows the rest of unprotected sex and will make an educated choice if it comes to the point of deciding whether or not to have an abortion. You people who are turning this into a pro-life/pro-choice debate really need to grow up.

This is a very emotional and personal decision. Hearing what other people have to say doesn't sway me one bit. I've always been very emotional when it comes to pregnancy and babies but our emotions, fears and sense of responsibility to others...all of these things can change. All I ever wanted from life was a family and I was blessed to have that early in my life. I am 26 with two beautiful boys. The first one was 3 months early, so I spent a lot of time around women who have tried and failed to have children while in the maternity ward. I feel for them, I really do, and I know that I would be miserable without my kids, and I would be eternally grateful if someone were to give me a baby. Even so, I wouldn't go through another pregnancy for someone else. My choice to not have another child right now is also a choice to not be pregnant. I never thought I'd be able to abort though...until today. I had a miscarriage this morning (probably because I am on the pill) and it didn't bother me. I'd always imagined the anguish of a miscarriage, but I hadn't decided to have a child, hadn't intended to, was even taking measures to avoid it, so why would I be upset that my pills worked? I know it's not the same as having to make the decision to abort, knowing that it's there. i think the miracle of life happens the moment it is known and accepted. After today, I don't think I would hesitate to abort with the first month or so...it almost seems to be an extension of the choice to use a condom. If a sperm got through, why not take it out? I suppose this is mostly random ranting for me to sort through the fact that I wasn't upset the way I always thought I would be.

hi i am chanice i am 15 years old and me and my boyfriend had sex on saturday 14th and today is wednesday the 18th what happend was wen he came some of it was on the bed and and some was on his peice shud i worry becasue i am worrying i might be pregant and it only has been 1 week now!

I am 19 years old with my boyfriend 17 years old and I am on Birth Control and he did not use condom and I think he did sperm in p***y so is that safe when I am on birth control to not get any pregnant?

abortion is murder, there is no sugar coating it. if you want to play with fire and have sex then you need to be an adult and except the consequences. dont take the easy way out. im not sorry for being blunt

dont tell her that she cangive the baby up it dont make you un pregnant it makes you the mother of a dead baby adoption you could see the baby not kill it you would have regrets i know alt of people do you really want your baby tore to pieces or burned from the inside out when at 6-9 weeks along it looks like a lil baby with a heart beat they do feel pain n a abortion can make you infertale and hurt your body please dont consider these pro choice assholes choice at any time