My and my boyfriend had been dating for 2years, and we both felt that we were ready to have sex. So 2 months ago we had sex, after we had sex i felt so cheap & hurt. why i dont know, but we has fine with me.. Then after that night he eventually stop talking to me :-( and now doesnt wanna know me. worse experience of my life :-( he has put me off talking to men and thinking about having sex again. and i cant get over whats apnd. i cnt talk to anyone cos i dnt want my friends to know cos i wud make a laffin stock out of myself. now i feel as tho i can never ever let another man touch me again bcos the one i loved fukd me up stained me & left :-(
dont worry about it
sadly very sadly thats what guys do.. i mean seriously?!! i hope they know thatt they are (mostly) all pieces of shtt and just should stop breking ouur hearts. :'(
When I was a teen that's not the way I saw it 2b, not at all. Girls just wanted to date us to get our hopes up so they could dump us. That is, if you were a nice guy who treated them well. It seemed that most girls went for the guys who treated them like sh*t. :O
Years later, I've had the chance to discuss this with other old guys who have lived stable lives, to see if it was just me the girls in high school didn't like, or did they notice the same thing. I find they share the same opinion. That is, teen age girls are only attracted to guys who are going to treat them like sh*t. >;)
I recall one time on a band trip when we stopped at a restaurant in the state capitol. The state prison was right across the street and some of us went to the craft store they had. When we got back on the bus all the girls could talk about was how hot the felons were, who were working there. 8-|
When I was in high school the dating advice amongst the guys was: if you date a nice girl - treat her like sh*t. If you date a s***, treat her like a queen. Looking back at those days I think they were right but I couldn't do that, so at the age of 15 I said the hell with girls and took up building dragsters. :-D
Years later, I've had the chance to discuss this with other old guys who have lived stable lives, to see if it was just me the girls in high school didn't like, or did they notice the same thing. I find they share the same opinion. That is, teen age girls are only attracted to guys who are going to treat them like sh*t. >;)
I recall one time on a band trip when we stopped at a restaurant in the state capitol. The state prison was right across the street and some of us went to the craft store they had. When we got back on the bus all the girls could talk about was how hot the felons were, who were working there. 8-|
When I was in high school the dating advice amongst the guys was: if you date a nice girl - treat her like sh*t. If you date a s***, treat her like a queen. Looking back at those days I think they were right but I couldn't do that, so at the age of 15 I said the hell with girls and took up building dragsters. :-D
Ok wait one min! Why the hell were u taught to treat a nice girl like shi... And the slu.... Like a queen itt should be the opposite thats so cruuel its hard for uss to get huurt and guyys are usually the ones to hurt us like seriously?! Im scared to have likee a bf now cuz i dont wantt it to be likee a one stand type oof thing and i dont wanna go thu the pain of him cheating on me cuz mostly every guy does that and thats a horriblee thing like whyy be w a girl if ur gonna cheat on her and hurt her and make her cry for days whats thee godd damn point and s**ts should just go die if u know that shes just gonna uusee u then dont to shiit w her just saying thats my poiint of view
Listen dipstick!!!! 8-|
I didn't say I believed that. I said that is what the other guys were saying and I couldn't do it. Apparently it worked well for them though, because they had girls and I didn't.
At least I didn't have to go through all the fuss of going to proms and other school things you have to do when you have a girl friend. Since I didn't have a girl I had the perfect excuse for not going to any of those things.
All I can tell you is there ARE nice guys out there, I wasn't the only guy in my class who didn't go the proms, you just have to keep looking to find one. They are most likely the ones who DON'T have girl friends. But who am I to give you advice? I gave up looking for a girl by the time I was 15, and took up dragsters. Whenever I wanted to take it out racing, it was always willing to go. Whenever I wanted to see it at night, it was always waiting for me in the garage.
I didn't say I believed that. I said that is what the other guys were saying and I couldn't do it. Apparently it worked well for them though, because they had girls and I didn't.
At least I didn't have to go through all the fuss of going to proms and other school things you have to do when you have a girl friend. Since I didn't have a girl I had the perfect excuse for not going to any of those things.
All I can tell you is there ARE nice guys out there, I wasn't the only guy in my class who didn't go the proms, you just have to keep looking to find one. They are most likely the ones who DON'T have girl friends. But who am I to give you advice? I gave up looking for a girl by the time I was 15, and took up dragsters. Whenever I wanted to take it out racing, it was always willing to go. Whenever I wanted to see it at night, it was always waiting for me in the garage.
well there is no need to call me a dipstickk, :-( lol mmkay well good for uu fer being the good one :-)