Right I masterbate and sometimes it feels good and sometimes it doesn't and today I masterbated and felt really good but after a while (30mins) a white fluid came out and I was painful! Also the fluid was sticky and now I'm afraid to masterbate from that bad pain earlier! Y did it happen and y does it sometimes hurt to masterbate and sometimes feels good? Also my penis is about 3 inches hard and hasn't stared growing
Hi hon: The white stuff is ejaculate (cum), but it shouldn't hurt you. If you are doing it too hard, that could be the main problem. Take a day or two off and then try again, but with less pressure, see if it still happens. If it does, perhaps be checked out by your doctor. ALSO - just thought of something - does your foreskin retract easily? If it is tight, or doesn't retract, try and EASILY retract it in the bath or under a shower. If that still doesn't work, you might need to see a doctor.
A boy's/mans's penis doesn't stop growing till about 18 years old, and the average is about 5 inches. So don't worry about that.
So see if the foreskin retracts WITHOUT pain, then try being gentler, then see a doctor if none of that works. Good luck honey, hope that helps you?
A boy's/mans's penis doesn't stop growing till about 18 years old, and the average is about 5 inches. So don't worry about that.
So see if the foreskin retracts WITHOUT pain, then try being gentler, then see a doctor if none of that works. Good luck honey, hope that helps you?
listen mate ive masturbated alot and im 14 it shouldnt hurt you like this woman said your probaly doing it to hard take it easy
I have another take on this situation.
At age 13, you have probably been enjoying the good feelings of stimulating yourself.
However, your body has been developing (which is why you've now discovered these pleasurable feelings) and preparing to become a man. As a result, your testes have begun to develop sperm, and your body has built up enough semen (sperm, juices, cum, whatever name you want to use) so that it needs to expell some.
This normally happens about every two weeks or so. However, some boys have this occur the first time when they are asleep, and that is called a nocturnal emisison. Other guys stimulate themselves to orgasm and their first experience is a shocking one.
You may not have been ready for the powerful contractions, the intense feeling and sensitivity on the head of your penis, and the ejaculation of white stuff (sperm in the semen). [This was my first experience also, at about age 13 when I hit puberty. I thought I had broken something. And I wasn't prepared for the powerful contractions! That faded after a half minute of terror, as I recall.] o.O
You may have interpreted this sudden reaction as pain... however, over time, you will begin to interpret this as pleasure...and you'll begin to try to produce it.
Take your time. Don't rush this. But be assured that all boys go through this, and that it will get better.
You may have been surprised by this the first time.
If you choose to repeat your experience, you'll be ready to catch the white stuff and clean up after yourself. (This is important, because if you don't, it begins to smell very rank after a day. Showering is important, as well as cleaning yourself and any spills up. You should be showering daily, anyway, by this age.)
If you have additional question, you can find them in a variety of books, including "What's happening to my Body", "Mens Body: A Users Manual" and a host of other information.
And you can always write to us here.
Good luck.
Don't panic.
enjoy.
At age 13, you have probably been enjoying the good feelings of stimulating yourself.
However, your body has been developing (which is why you've now discovered these pleasurable feelings) and preparing to become a man. As a result, your testes have begun to develop sperm, and your body has built up enough semen (sperm, juices, cum, whatever name you want to use) so that it needs to expell some.
This normally happens about every two weeks or so. However, some boys have this occur the first time when they are asleep, and that is called a nocturnal emisison. Other guys stimulate themselves to orgasm and their first experience is a shocking one.
You may not have been ready for the powerful contractions, the intense feeling and sensitivity on the head of your penis, and the ejaculation of white stuff (sperm in the semen). [This was my first experience also, at about age 13 when I hit puberty. I thought I had broken something. And I wasn't prepared for the powerful contractions! That faded after a half minute of terror, as I recall.] o.O
You may have interpreted this sudden reaction as pain... however, over time, you will begin to interpret this as pleasure...and you'll begin to try to produce it.
Take your time. Don't rush this. But be assured that all boys go through this, and that it will get better.
You may have been surprised by this the first time.
If you choose to repeat your experience, you'll be ready to catch the white stuff and clean up after yourself. (This is important, because if you don't, it begins to smell very rank after a day. Showering is important, as well as cleaning yourself and any spills up. You should be showering daily, anyway, by this age.)
If you have additional question, you can find them in a variety of books, including "What's happening to my Body", "Mens Body: A Users Manual" and a host of other information.
And you can always write to us here.
Good luck.
Don't panic.
enjoy.
Is it weird if nothing comes out?
Hi honey! No it's not weird, it's all got to do with how old you are, if you are hydrated, also you might not have gotten to the point of ejaculation - you might have had it confused with the orgasm feeling and let go too soon! Always have a tissue handy just incase, if you have drank enough water, and got to the point of ejaculation - relase - and STILL there is no liquid whatsover, you might be too young, or need to see a doctor! Just also take it easy and look at if you have negative feelings - or if you were told it was bad or sinful! Because these will also stop your body from releasing! There is NOWHERE in the bible - and believe me I've had this conversation a million times already - that says self touch is bad! They have EVERY other rule or sin, but they don't mention that because it is natural! ALL mammals do it, and humans do it even while in the womb, it is a comfort thing - NOTHING to do with sexual images etc. Thats why children do it - they don't know anything immoral etc. So don't worry about any of that OK - IF you are that is?!
That white fluid is cum, semen, sperm. It shouldn't hur, so either talk to a friend, brother or doctor about that..
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