2 weeks after abortion had sex what are the chances of being pregnant

anonymous wrote:

gurlfriend wrote:

what are you girls thinking, these things are not meant as contaceptives, not the morning after pill or abortion. Come on, have you no will power a week or two later and you might have put yourselves in the same predictament.
This is real life. Do you know how bad it is for your body not to mention how fair is it to the children you may or may not be conceiving, wake up, not that you will listen to me, you didn't even learn from this experiennce only weeks ago. Please hear me, be wiser, make sound decisions and don't let partners talk you into their Ideal methods, they aren't the ones who go threw this. WE are.
mistakes are alright, as long as you learn lessons from them......

Lmaooo, im sry but ur weird. I think u needa relax

UHH GAL YA BETA CHILL COZ U NO NOT ALL BABIES ARE MADE BY PARTERS OTHERS HV BEEN RAPED N WORSE A CONDOM BREAK BABY TINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK OK COME BACK TO PLANET EARTH

kaytee&mike wrote:

Guest wrote:

Seriously..what was your reasoning to not have a baby? Did you feel OKAY WITH the abortion? I've had one too. I don't feel okay with it. I'm pretty sick... :( Anyone else having regrets...

I had an abortion 5 weeks ago and I have not been the same since i try to keep my self busy to keep my mind off of it but it doesn't always work. I have a 2 year old son so it helps a bit but it still isn't my little that i aborted. I find it very hard!!

I had an abortion 3 weeks ago. When i first found out i was pregnant I thought it was my only choice because i wanted to go to school and do something with my life. I thought a baby would ruin it for me. I set up the appt for my abortion and as the day got nearer I realized that I felt something for this life inside me. The day of the appt. I spoke with my boyfriend about keeping it. Sure it would be hard and we would sacrifice
A LOT, but i wanted to do it. I was ready to grow up for what we made with love. He told me to just take the pills because it was the best choice for us. Now i realize it was the best choice for him. He isn't ready to grow up and take care of anyone. He can't even take care of himself. I took the pills and had a miscarriage, i don't regret it because he left me, but i feel empty. And i can't keep myself from thinking that i could have and should have done it by myself. I'm 20 and i feel like i'm never going to find anyone who loves me because of what i did.

I had an abortion almost four months ago and I still can't bring myself to be ok with it.. I try to justify it in wettest possible but I find myself thinking about it all the time.. How far along I would be.. What the sex would of been.. I thought it would get better with time but honestly I don't think it ever would.. I believe I made the right decisions in certain aspects and yet I feel guilty.. In fact I feel so guilty that I can't allow myself to get close enough to a guy to develop any type of a real relationship, because I know that eventually sex will become an issue and I will feel that guilt.. I feel as if I don't deserve to be happy sometimes.. When I had the abortion I said that I would one day be a mother but that particular moment wasn't the right time.. Now I feel like I had my chance and I could have wasted it.. I know people will read this and have their own opinions and some will criticize what I've done.. Just know that you couldn't possibly criticize me as much as I criticize myself..

I'm sorry I just have to say that a lot of people on here and being a bit too judgmental when it comes to abortions. I know it feels good to tell people you opinions but when it's a tough subject sometimes it's better kept to yourself. I unfortunately was pregnant at 17 and again at 18 (with the same guy) and chose both times to abort the pregnancy and to this day have regrets of course and am scared to death I won't be able to conceive again because of the time frame between each abortion. But I want to defend the women who made the mistake or either trusting the wrong guy, not wanting to raise a child in a big environment or w/e the reason. For me the father was cruel and threatened to take my child away, yelled at me constantly and I couldn't bring myself to have a child with that kind of person or have to leave my baby with him for weekends. It would have killed me. So please all I ask before you judge is to just think about the girl who went through it all first. Trust me not all of us think of it as the easy way out or not caring that we killed our child. We care and we hurt too.

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kaytee&mike wrote:

Guest wrote:

Seriously..what was your reasoning to not have a baby? Did you feel OKAY WITH the abortion? I've had one too. I don't feel okay with it. I'm pretty sick... :( Anyone else having regrets...

I had an abortion 5 weeks ago and I have not been the same since i try to keep my self busy to keep my mind off of it but it doesn't always work. I have a 2 year old son so it helps a bit but it still isn't my little that i aborted. I find it very hard!!

I had an abortion 3 weeks ago. When i first found out i was pregnant I thought it was my only choice because i wanted to go to school and do something with my life. I thought a baby would ruin it for me. I set up the appt for my abortion and as the day got nearer I realized that I felt something for this life inside me. The day of the appt. I spoke with my boyfriend about keeping it. Sure it would be hard and we would sacrifice
A LOT, but i wanted to do it. I was ready to grow up for what we made with love. He told me to just take the pills because it was the best choice for us. Now i realize it was the best choice for him. He isn't ready to grow up and take care of anyone. He can't even take care of himself. I took the pills and had a miscarriage, i don't regret it because he left me, but i feel empty. And i can't keep myself from thinking that i could have and should have done it by myself. I'm 20 and i feel like i'm never going to find anyone who loves me because of what i did.

i had an abortion 2-3 weeks ago, i went on the pill and then on monday i had unprotected sex with someone. i stopped taken the pill after i had sex and i have been suffering from bad heads,sickness and tierdness. i went to the toilet today and im only bleeding a dot of blood..i took my pill today. could i be pregnant?

i had sex on the 2nd week after my abortion im not sure if my boyfriend pulled out but i am on the pill now .... should i take the morning after pill as well?

I deiscovered a few days ago that I am a few weeks pregnant I am 21 still in uni but finish like april next week I still live at home with my parents and my partner lives with his still and we are engaged. When I told him I didn't exactly get the response I had hoped for he said he would rather we had a baby when I finish uni and we are in our own home. I am terrified at the idea of an abortion though and feel i would regret it all I have had today is babies staring me in the face making the decision so much harder. I am also scared that if I got an abortion then I may not get pregnant again in the future when the time is ready in his eyes I just don't know what to do?!?! :/

am kind of in the same situation. I had unprotected sex3-4 days after my abortion i didnt think you could get pregnant so quick after an abortion but its now been only 2-3 weeks and a was startin to worry i may be pregnant so i took a test and it came up positive. is this just my hormones? and what should? yes its sick and disgusting but i was in a bad way and didnt no what i was doing. judge all you like. but i need help!

I personally dont think the "pull out" method should be used at all. Definatly after an abortion, obviously you had unprotected sex that lead you to a pregnancy you werent ready for, having an abortion made me learn to be much more careful until im ready bucause i dont like the fact i had one. I would hope most of you would have learned and feel the same way. After an abortion everyone should use every method of protection to provent pregnancy until you are ready. Condoms, and birth control.

I had an abortion.this afternoon. Alone scared and feel like im dying. I cried and cried the whole time and the doctor yelled at me. I went in afraid i have three children and recently lost my job. I fear i could not support a child i have nothing. A house fire took away my life and everything i had. Except the most precious tthe children i have. they told me i had a choice and could change my mind.until the moment i got on the table. I changed my mind and went into the room to talk to the doctor only to find.out that the one medicine they gave me is extremely unhealthy to the baby and she would either die inside or be born with serious defects or health issues and was coerced that finishing was best. It hurt so bad i was screaming and the doctor yelled at me telling me oh well theres nothing she coukd do that it was going to hurt. I ran out the back door crying clutching my empty stomach. Five hours later here i am my heart is broken i cant stop crying the pain in my stomach still so severe. But my heart and mind is whats killing me the most. I feel my soul was ripped.out i feel like i am so horrible. Ive been in this shower for three hours i dont know what to do i feel so dirty and horrific i couldnt tell anyone i feel so ashamed i have no one to talk to im falling apart and its only getting worse as time goes by someone please i need someone to talk to please if you can spare some time email me. _[removed]_ i feel like im losing myself i cant even hold my two yr old daughter without crying my eyes out

Im ashamed. I had an abortion.this afternoon. Alone scared and feel like im dying. I cried and cried the whole time and the doctor yelled at me. I went in afraid i have three children and recently lost my job. I fear i could not support a child i have nothing. A house fire took away my life and everything i had. Except the most precious tthe children i have. they told me i had a choice and could change my mind.until the moment i got on the table. I changed my mind and went into the room to talk to the doctor only to find.out that the one medicine they gave me is extremely unhealthy to the baby and she would either die inside or be born with serious defects or health issues and was coerced that finishing was best. It hurt so bad i was screaming and the doctor yelled at me telling me oh well theres nothing she coukd do that it was going to hurt. I ran out the back door crying clutching my empty stomach. Five hours later here i am my heart is broken i cant stop crying the pain in my stomach still so severe. But my heart and mind is whats killing me the most. I feel my soul was ripped.out i feel like i am so horrible. Ive been in this shower for three hours i dont know what to do i feel so dirty and horrific i couldnt tell anyone i feel so ashamed i have no one to talk to im falling apart and its only getting worse as time goes by someone please i need someone to talk to please if you can spare some time email me.  ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private e-mails not allowed*** Please read our Terms of Use

I had an abortion due to my husband cheating on me and it kills me inside now that I had it done and I am really depressed over it

I just had an abortion on June 4 2012 me an my husband are trying agin its been a month what are my chances of getting pregnant again

All of you girls who say you had sex less than two weeks after your abortions...you are idiotic to say the least. I had an abortion too, it was horrible, but I do a little something called following the doctor's orders. Hell, I waited an EXTRA two weeks just to make sure, although I will say my boyfriend wanted to wait longer as well to make sure that I was completely recovered. But for God's sake, it is like you weren't even listening or reading anything they told you.