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I wanted a baby but my husband was not sure, we had a very pleasent accident and I was excited from day go...I loved every ach, I felt like a woman everytime I felt nausea...I was going to be happy.
About a week ago, I had some brown like discharge and bleeding...I quickly go on the internet and was relieved to find that so many others had experienced the same with mostly positive results...The following Monday I had my first appointment with the midwife, it was an information session and I was so excited...It was funny I remember thinking how old everyone else was as me and my husband were feeling pretty old...It was still all good. Since then, I have been bleeding on and off, it started brown and then to pick, nothing really on my underware only when I wipe. Then the blood got redder and the cramps started. I called my midwife (my first appointment is not until July 22) and told them what was happening they told me to wait to see what happens it could be nothing...I was too nervous to wait so I went to a walk in clinic the doctor told me to go have an u/s and blood work, I am still waiting for the results...Right before my ultrasound I passed a blood clot the size of a quarter...For a short while the blood stopped a bit...
When Idid the u/s the techician asked me if I had any other chlidren, I said no and she said so this was going to be your first...A slip I guess but I feel like it know this is the end. She had no compassion for me at all, she mentioned I had a fiberoid and when I asked about it she told me to talk to my doctor, she said she had located the sac but it was so small she could not really say what was going on so I was by far not out of the woods..She told me that she would send my results back to the doctor as it was serious when I asked again she could say nothing...I am at work here I must have spent like 5 hours just trying to find someone who would tell me it is going to be okay that I am okay that this baby will be okay...I am dying..I feel so alone and scared and useless..I love my husband to death but he is really no support and we promised not to tell anyone until we were sure and now I can't even fall into my mothers arms and cry for myself and my baby...
I called the doctors office to ask if they had results and they said they would call me back, that feels like it was hours ago...WHY CAN'T ANYONE JUST TELL ME WHAT IS GOING ON??????
I feel for us all who are going through this...I see so many wowmen having to wait weeks to find out what is going on and it really sucks...I pray for us all and our babies and I pray for peace of mind for all of us...
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Hello Everyone,
I just wanted to share my experiences because i was looking for an answer when i was going through some signs of miscarrying.
I was about 5-6 weeks and had a lot of thick heavy bleeding and slight camping (like a period)......
''Apolgies in advance if i am too discriptive''
On the 1st Saturday my husband and i found i was pregnant - we were completely over the moon.(I was about 5-6 weeks pregnant.) I went to the doctor to find out all the details during the week. On the Friday evening i went to the toilet and noticed a little blood. It scared the living hell out of me. I decided a put a tampon in 'just encase'. I woke up on the saturday morning and the tampon was full of red blood. I panic and i phoned my husband....
I went to the doctors on the second Saturday and the doctor said he if i continue to bleed throughout the weekend i have a high chance of miscarrying. I was completely crashed!!! The doctor said he would book me in for a scan on the Monday. I was a little cross because i had to chase them up on Monday and when i got hold of them they said i could only get a scan on the Wednesday afternoon. As you can image i was beside myself! I was still bleeding on the Monday with thick blood and cramping - and now i have to wait until Wednesday. My husband and I decided to go for a private scan (£85). Unfortunately we heard the horrible news that i miscarried - there were no signs of a pregnancy.
I wish everyone all the best if you are experiencing this but i have heard of some wonderful stories of ladies still being pregnant with the bleeding.
xxxx
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hi everyone my husband and I found out that I was pregnant a week ago. Delighted of course. Went to the GP to confirm it, and had 2 negative tests with him on the Tuesday. He said that I could have miscarried, but had bleeding at that stage. Devastated. I did 4 tests after that which were positive. So was hopeful. Since then had bleeding and passed clots last night and cramps which have continued today. but since its a bank holiday I dont know what I should do? I dont want to go to a hospital as I know its not good news. Did another 2 tests yesterday negative. Any advice?
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I am 38 years of age and found out I am pregnant about 3 weeks ago. I was scared at first then after awhile became so happy. But the other day I started spotting bright red and pressure cramping in the lower part of my abdomen. Went to the er and they said I had an ectopic pregnancy, but later stated oh maybe not we wil have to monitor you for four days. I was so upset and now waiting to see what will happen. I know its in Gods hands.
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Hi everyone. I'm not sure if anyone still reads this thread. But i'm 24, 4wks pregnant and i'm currently, clotting, bleeding and cramping. I've been like this since Tuesday of this week.
I went to the ER, they did a Sonogram, the sac was there intact but obviously the baby is till too small to see. My HCG levels were at 1915 Tuesday. Since then i've been bleeding and clotting with some cramps here and there. I saw my Dr. on Thursday (yesterday) and he told me that because the baby is so small and the sac is still intact we can assume we still have a baby until proven otherwise.
This is my second attempt to being a mum. I lost my first at 8w4d and it was a complete miscarriage, i mean, everything came out. I saw my baby in it's sac and everything. Obviously when i went to the hospital then there was nothing anyone could do.
A friend of mine, who had also lost her first, told me to by hpt and to check my own HCG levels by taking a test every 48 hours or so. If the tests were still positive and the lines were getting darker then it was a good sign.
I did a test today, and it's clearly visible that I'm pregnant. I'm waiting to see if the next test, which i'll do in 48 hours or more will be the same.
I've read countless experiences both hopeful and heartbreaking. Some women seem to go through an actual period and not lose their babies others don't even notice some times.
Pretty much I'm wondier if I should be hopeful still? At 24 it's so hard to understand why you're body can't do the one thing it's pretty much meant to do...i don't mean anything by it but it's true. I feel like i'm not even a woman because i can't have a baby. And it's taking its toll on my husband and our relationship.
Thank you for reading. If only there were an app for this sort of thing.
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I've been having the same issues.and i miscarrid at 4months with my son April 2014
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