Basically, I've been with the boyfriend for 4 months and fell pregnant, We have both spoken about the options and both agreed it would be good to terminate. This is due to money, living and age. I know 20 isn't classed as a young but for me i still feel like a teenager. He is 22 YO.
Im struggling to come to a decision...
I was born with Gastroschisis and all my life doctors have said i will never be able to get pregnant so to find out i am was lovely but scary as i know the consequences... Which result in 6/10 death.
i really need to know if i am being selfish in my decision or do i sound selfish it really would ease my mind.
Im so sorry if i have offended anyone by writing this but please help me, im so confused and im so scared... i havent gone for the termination yet, i have the doctors on monday so i can give more of an update on how far along i am and information like that.
thank you
Samantha
Hgello Samantha.
The termination in your situtaion wouldn't be considered selfish. It's up to you wether or not you want to keep the baby. But like you said you have financial issues, and well yes 20 is young. It's all up to you if you really want the baby or not? But it's not selfish if your taking your health issues into consideration as well.