Am I stupid for staying with an alcoholic who becomes abusive? I’m 21 and he’s 41, he acts like he gives me the world because I don’t work and he takes care of everything yet he’s doing it for himself not me. Right? I’m just his stupid little girl he likes to f**k and beat up when he gets drunk.. it’s pathetic and I’m pathetic yet I can’t seem to gain the courage to leave, any advice? :(