14 year-old male here. Ever since I've tried to masturbate (since 2 years ago), I haven't felt any pleasure whatsoever. I've been through puberty and feel the need to masturbate but I can't, nor can I ejaculate/orgasm. I've been circumsised. I'm worried that I'll embarrass myself in front of women and I'll never have children. Please, if anyone has or knows how to solve this problem answer, thank you.
Hi A1,
Not all 14 year olds can ejaculate.
Do you have signs of puberty? Have you had a "nocturnal emission" - a "wet dream?"
I'm not sure that I have completed puberty but my pubic hair is fairly dark and grown, and it seems like I'm having voice cracks. No, I have not had a wet dream.
Shouldn't I feel it even a little but when I masturbate?
Shouldn't I feel it even a little but when I masturbate?
How long do you masturbate for? It may take a while for you to reach orgasm.
The longest I've gone is 20-30 mins
Ok.
Do you feel anything?
Not all guys can ejaculate using the "traditional" masturbation methods. Some guys need to "hump" things.
Do you feel anything?
Not all guys can ejaculate using the "traditional" masturbation methods. Some guys need to "hump" things.
I don't feel pleasure, but it's not numb. It feels like touching a finger.
We all develop at different rates/times. You may have pubic hair but your body may just not be ready to orgasm/ejaculate yet. That's OK.
You do get an erection when you masturbate, correct?
You do get an erection when you masturbate, correct?
Yes, I can get erections normally.
I wish I had more for you A1 but without an exam it is difficult.
I don't think it is related to your circumcision.
Most guys can start to ejaculate around the same time they develop pubic hair. That you have pubic hair and still can't ejaculate does NOT mean there is a problem.
Even if you can't masturbate to ejaculation, you'd very likely be having wet dreams - if you are producing semen. The body does need to eliminate older sperm.
Also, most males have "dry orgasm's" before they start to ejaculate. They get the "good feeling" but don't ejaculate - yet.
I can't say that anything is wrong. You may still just need some more time.
Please keep us posted on your progress.
Good luck.
I don't think it is related to your circumcision.
Most guys can start to ejaculate around the same time they develop pubic hair. That you have pubic hair and still can't ejaculate does NOT mean there is a problem.
Even if you can't masturbate to ejaculation, you'd very likely be having wet dreams - if you are producing semen. The body does need to eliminate older sperm.
Also, most males have "dry orgasm's" before they start to ejaculate. They get the "good feeling" but don't ejaculate - yet.
I can't say that anything is wrong. You may still just need some more time.
Please keep us posted on your progress.
Good luck.