who are you to judge ? your not god either. im sorry you misscarraged people that actually want kids and cant, i do feel sorry for. I'm currently 8 weeks and 4 days and I am having an abortion this tuesday. Your clearly not going to heaven either if your telling other people they're not going simply because it was THEIR choice not to have a kid. and usually they have good reasons. MINE happens to be because I am 16 and do not want the responsibility of having a child. Especially since everyone who has sex clearly doesn't "want" a kid. I was on birth control and we used a condom. and i still got pregnant. Stop judging people for making their own choices and maybe you will go to heaven. I cant stand people like you. If you dont like abortions then dont read things on the internet about them, get a life and stop trying to tell everyone else how to live theirs. kthanks (:
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Having an abortion is a personal choice for all women. I understand you had 2 miscarriages which is one of the worst things I can possibly imagine going through, but some of these women may not have been able to look after their babies financially or emotionally? Or the baby may have been badly disabled! You cannot go around basically telling people God wont like what they are doing, because surely if God is such a great guy he a) wouldnt let people like you, who obviously want a baby, have miscarriages and b) he would understand that it may be the lesser of two evils to abort a baby.
And as for your comment of 'and for the future put something on ure fellas end', like me, many of the women on here may have done. I was on the pill and 'put something on my fellas end' yet the condom broke and the pill failed me. Do not assume people of being careless as many of these people probably werent.
As a woman who has been through 2 miscarriages, you should know how much emotional pain it is to loose a baby. Having an abortion is also very emotional and, for me, will always be the hardest decision I have ever and will ever have to make in my life. Why on earth, knowing how much emotional pain we can go through as humans, would you try to make these women feel worse? Thats just horrible.
And as for your comment of 'and for the future put something on ure fellas end', like me, many of the women on here may have done. I was on the pill and 'put something on my fellas end' yet the condom broke and the pill failed me. Do not assume people of being careless as many of these people probably werent.
As a woman who has been through 2 miscarriages, you should know how much emotional pain it is to loose a baby. Having an abortion is also very emotional and, for me, will always be the hardest decision I have ever and will ever have to make in my life. Why on earth, knowing how much emotional pain we can go through as humans, would you try to make these women feel worse? Thats just horrible.
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This advice really helped thank you, and to the people posting nasty messages if ur not lookin for advice on the hardest decision some of us have had to make, why are u spending ur time searching these sites making people feel worse than they may already! Call yourself Christians, being one myself I think u need to return to ur religous roots and think again. God won't judge me he will just look at my reasons and forgive me!
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omg. no i understand the fear of having an unwanted pregnancy . but i have to say you are wrong the way u are talking if i had abort one of my beautiful daughter there souls would of just went to some other newborns body down the line and someone else would be raising a child with my daughter soul. um........ no. when you conceive there is a soul there if you abort the soul goes to heaven . end of story . fyi no i dont hate people that have had abortions . though yes i believe it is wrong. and as far as your boobs being swollen well duh.... that happens after you give birth so you can feed your newborn your body things you gave birth!!!! but you didnt . just like mothers that dont end up breast feeding the swelling will go down in a week or so. common sense.
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Ur right no one has the right to judge, but pls don't speak about GOd if you dont even know the 10 commandments bc judging is not one!!
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Hey girl, you sound quite wise for a 23-year-old! It's good to hear someone talk some fresh sense :) Wish you all the best in life!
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Terminating a pregnancy is just like removing a mole, or popping a pimple. It's just removing a couple of cells. I just had an abortion a few days ago, and my parents supported me for it. Why raise a child when I can not support it, and why change my life style when I am not ready for one.
Don't come on this site telling us we don't have a choice in what we do with ourselves. We are told women can chose what they want, if we want to have sex we can, so why can't we chose to have a baby or not?
And don't tell us to keep our legs closed, why not just keep your mouth shut.
Don't come on this site telling us we don't have a choice in what we do with ourselves. We are told women can chose what they want, if we want to have sex we can, so why can't we chose to have a baby or not?
And don't tell us to keep our legs closed, why not just keep your mouth shut.
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im going thru the exact same thing -.-
i hate it , and theyre really warm , but they dont leak and they are rock hard !
i hate it , and theyre really warm , but they dont leak and they are rock hard !
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sh*t up!!! Maybe your not a real woman since you can't bare children, you evil b***h.lol
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A pro choice christian hypocrite, continue to judge fore u to will be judged.
I pray to GOD that u never experience any of what I myself and the women on this site have experienced.
Until u have been raped, fallen pregnant and have to abort due to medical reasons.
Be quiet for only fools make noise about matters they can't comprehend.
I forgive u for ur uneducated and insensitive comments, they were made out of lack of knowledge and especially with regards to the women on this site.
Further more no on this site owes u an explanation, we empathise with u for your loss, but u have no right to stand in judgement of others
I pray to GOD that u never experience any of what I myself and the women on this site have experienced.
Until u have been raped, fallen pregnant and have to abort due to medical reasons.
Be quiet for only fools make noise about matters they can't comprehend.
I forgive u for ur uneducated and insensitive comments, they were made out of lack of knowledge and especially with regards to the women on this site.
Further more no on this site owes u an explanation, we empathise with u for your loss, but u have no right to stand in judgement of others
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amen to that....some people judge and dont know the personal situation of some people..........
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Hmm.. Actually..It is her right to hav a baby or not..!! There might be sum reasonable problems for her.. It is her right t decide her future.. Wat eva.. If that is ur personal thouht then pla keep it to ur self..!! This is something to clarify their doubts..!! Let god decide wether heaven or hell!! Plz shut and think twice before tellin anything..!!as ur jobless it dosent mean tat u can jus say wat ever u feel lyk.. Get that!!
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