after an abortion do your breasts get smaller?

It is so funny how "Christian" are quick to judge others. Do you know how many Christians killed innocent people over self things look the the crusades, and other past events that happened I believe in a God and Jesus, but god already no man is corrupt he knew that from the beginning that why he made Jesus. In fyi there are so many people who call them selves christians in have an abortion not because they cant take care of it or rape but just because they dont want the burden if u have an abortion for that reason your the most evil person in the world but if u cant take care of it was raped, homeless, etc. hey u got to do what you got to do.

I just experienced my 1st pregnancy due to medical complications I had to end my pregnancy. My baby had TS. Now my breast are leaking & it's upsetting b/c it reminds me of my baby & what I have lost. Ladies please if your not in serious relationship or in a financial state to have a child protect yourself. Don't take away an innocent life b/c of your irresponsibility & promiscuity. The only reason I see an abortion as necessary is when it's rape or health complications like mines was. While all of those women that are ignorant & get pregnant & think you can get rid of it like you were stopping by to get a cup of coffee realize that there's women who can't bare children, women who are expecting but have health issues with their baby, or those that try & try & no such luck. While your baby may be healthy & your gonna kill it b/c your not ready. Then protect yourself!!! I pray for all women out there that deserve children that they may be blessed with them & wisdom for those that don't see value in a baby's life.

f**k you as****e

I truly feel for your loss, it can't have been easy and I understand the pain of never being able to hold your baby must run deep. But don't get things confused, you don't have the right to project your pain onto others and somehow hold them responsible for your frustration, you can't expect women who don't have health problems to go ahead and keep their babies when they really don't want to/ can't for whatever reason just because you and other women have had trouble bearing babies. That is very twisted and selfish logic masked with misplaced self-centered righteousness and holier-than-thou complex. Your experience is your experience, it's your pain and your cross to bear, For another woman having a baby might be her cross to bear, it's just that simple.

And another thing. People are so worried about "punishing" the wanton harlot who got her kicks sexually ( like the evil w**** that she is) that I don't see the pro-life movement actually stopping for half a second to even pretend to give a sh*t about whether or not the BABY would have a decent and fulfilling life with that mother who DOESN'T want to keep it. Interesting how people's focus is on judgment and punishment for "misbehaving sexually" instead on what's better for the parties involved. All of this masquerading as "god's opinion", like someone so hateful ( not you necessarily, I don't believe you were aggressive in your post) could ever represent god.

Simply said, I don't care the justification for any woman's abortion. All I'm trying to say is when any particular woman becomes conscious to the fact they don't want their child and tell themselves w.e they tell themselves to make it feel ok, how about you stop pretending babies come from the stork and make the guy wear a condom and or use birth control..tie your tubes or make him get a vasectomy. If you know you aren't ready for a baby act like the kid was an std...I bet it would be more likely prevented then. On second hand the statistics show that sex is a bigger priority over protecting your own life so to conclude, I cannot signify the importance of a child's life when their not a bit more important then the individual who's own life isn't given the proper significance to begin with... We all make our own decisions and are entitled to various opinions. I wish happiness to all and I'm sorry we disagree.

Thank you so much for this reassurance, I'm 17 and have only ever had sex with my boyfriend who I have been with for a year and just discovered I am about 7 weeks pregnant yesterday as I had no symptoms but my breasts growing from 36D to 38DD. and insomnia and nose bleeds. I conceived when my pill ran out and I while I was waiting to get more. It's my fault for not using protection, but as much as I want this child I just wish it happened when I was in my twenties but I will have children with my boyfriend when I'm older. For now the best thing for everyone is to terminate our pregnancy.

Most people don't even have a good enough reason for their otherwise profound aversion to abortion---except that they heard it at church or they are just 'traditional' I live in Jamaica where I see women and families suffer from the inability to care for their young- the direct result of social decay perpetuated by illiteracy, perpetuated by poverty yet still abortion is illegal here. What we do not realize is that anti-abortion movements are institutions created to maintain the gross abyss between the wealthy and the poor,and this has been further reinforced through the church because the church is the most effective means of control- manipulation of the conscience.

I've come on here for advise on a difficult situation. So why am I just reading an ethical debate?

Mine are sore, swollen and disturbing my sleep now. But not leaking.

Just like to know any tips to ease the soreness please?

You are horrible. How dare you judge someone for making a decision in their life? It's not yours, so leave them alone.

Just a soul? If it's just a soul like you say it is then how come it has a heartbeat, a brain, arms, etc.? I'm not saying that if a woman isn't financially or emotionally ready she should keep the baby, but there is another option. ADOPTION! There's plenty of families out there that dream of having a baby but can't so you can help make a family's dream come true. I don't understand how it's ilegal go up to someone you don't know and kill them but it's ok to kill an innocent child inside your own womb. It's life people! As soon as the sperm meets the egg that's life, it may not look like a human at first but it doesn't change the fact that it's still a human beign. My God not even animals do this to themselves and were supposed to be better than them. When you have sex you're risking getting pregnant so if you're not ready to have kids quite yet don't have sex or get smart women and get yourselves on birth control, there's plenty of options to choose from or make the guy wear a condom. Fyi pull out method method doesn't work, lots of women get pregnant through precum. I understand that many women and young girls get pregnant through incest and rape and I'm deeply sorry for that. It's not their fault as much as it's not the baby's fault. The baby doesn't know anything the baby is unaware of what's going on in the mother's life all it knows is that it's depending on the mother for safety and food. I have always been a strong believer of "everything happens for a reason" we can't just sweep a pregnancy under the rug and pretend it never happened that's heartless amd inhumane. The wonderful and wise woman Mother Teresa once said "But I feel that the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a war against the child-a direct killing of the innocent child-murder by the mother herself. And if we accept that a mother can kill even her own child, how can we tell other people not to kill one another?... And by abortion, the father is told he does not have to take any responsibility at all for the child he has brought into the world. That father is likely to put other women into the same trouble. So abortion just leads to more abortion. Any country that accepts abortion is not teaching the people to love, but to use any violence to get what they want. That is why the greatest destroyer of love and peace is abortion." I have seen pictures online of babies/fetuses who have been aborted and I get sick in the stomach to know that this is ok in our country that this is allowed. Please women think before you get an abortion do your research there's many stories of women who get one and afterwards can't ever bear children or sometimes die because the abortion wasn't done properly. Also the emotional pain is horrible it takes a lot out of you more than you know.

Wow, your talking about heartless people but yet, your also a heartless b***h. I think it's very rude to judge people you don't know... Also not knowing there reasons of why they choose THEIR desecion. For all you know these girls could have been in a pretty bad situation. like idk being raped, or was in a REALLY bad relationship? You don't know sh*t. Soooooooo why don't you just back off and mind your own business. It's kinda sad that you had to type in something on the Internet, that you don't like, and can't do sh*t about!!!! You took the time out of your day, to go on here and judge girls, and be a complete b***h. Why? That looks like you have no life... And for all we know, you might even be a hipocrit. But I do have questions for the girls who waited soooooo long to get the abortion tho. It is a sensitive situation. And I wouldn't have waited that long for it to be almost a complete baby. You know? I'm just curious, not judging or anything.

I just had an abortion at 22 weeks about 4 days ago and since yesterday I've been waking up with wet spots around my boobs on my shirt and I can literally squeeze the milk out. My boobs feel like rocks so I'm constantly running to the bathroom trying to get it out, hoping it'll stop the pain. My left breast is harder than my right and I'm thinking its just producing more, and baths definitely relieve pain. Just not easy finding time to take a bath. As for pro-choice or pro-life, it's too broad of a discussion and you "pro-lifers" need to be realistic. Some of these girls couldn't give their babies food, shelter, loving homes, education. You're all not pro-life, you're pro-birth. What happens after the birth? I am not a bad person. I will always know I made the best choice.

To all the pro life idiots. By telling people that they're going to hell or that they deserve a place in hell you are also committing one of the biggest sins. You are not god so you have no right to speak your judgments as a flaws human being on to another. Bow before him and be humble because you are no more than human. Realize that. And worry about getting your own selves into heaven cuz right now with all the judgement your doing you might wanna step back and take a look at your selves. *now, some advice?... you ask for forgiveness** (god see's what's in our hearts and if the only thing you have is judgement & poison in yours..it makes you no better than anybody else*

This isn't an anti abortion discussion board. This is a legitimate question someone needs answered about after effects from an abortion. If you have something to say about how you think it's evil then post your opinion on a protesting website, not here. There are plenty of other places to voice your opinion in. I had a procedure this week and in going through the same thing. It's all part of the process and will pass soon. Give your body a few weeks to regulate again and things will seem back to normal. It's hard to go through when everyone wants to tell you what you didn't was wrong when it's mentally and emotionally draining enough as it is. Stay strong and keep yourself healthy.