can a 41 year old male have sex with a 70 year old lady?
It's completely dependent upon the couple. In short, yes.
At 70, a woman may be experiencing some sexual problems, such as vaginal dryness, difficulty getting aroused, and complications from other health problems. There needs to be proper communication about what difficulties may arise during foreplay and intercourse and to prepare for them beforehand. If there may be some dangerous or bad complications, she should speak to her doctor first about sexual intercourse and with a man 30 years younger.
At 70, a woman may be experiencing some sexual problems, such as vaginal dryness, difficulty getting aroused, and complications from other health problems. There needs to be proper communication about what difficulties may arise during foreplay and intercourse and to prepare for them beforehand. If there may be some dangerous or bad complications, she should speak to her doctor first about sexual intercourse and with a man 30 years younger.