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Ever since i can remember I have been attracted to boys. I imagined being with them and liked that fact. Now, i met a girl who is bisexual and I was masterbating to boys when the thought of her popped up in a sexual fantasy. I realised, Am I a lesbian? Its scaring me so much. I see visions of kissing her and being in a relationship with her and i do not like the sight of it and it scares me because I fear I might like it. Ive always liked boys. I always felt whenever I liked a boy I was confident with life and thinking about that boy would make me feel better about bad things, etc. Btw, she has masculine features, which makes me think that I got turned on by that.  Am I a lesbian? I dont find femine girls atractive and never had crushes on any girls. 

Hi 12353,

I don't know your age nor do I need to.  I am quite positive to say that you are not a lesbian, you are just curious.  It is normal for females to have feelings for their friends, you wonder what it would be like to kiss a girl and why not your best friend instead of someone you don't know or trust.  The girl you are interested in is bisexual, of course it is normal to question if you are the same, am I bi or straight, who am I, etc - this is normal.

You also may always be curious until you do something about it or experiment but maybe not.  I'm not saying to go out and do something, that is completely up to you and only you will know when the time is right.

Hope this helps

LQ420

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hey my friend
just wanna make it clear thier is nothing wrong with being Lesbian , thier is nothing to b afraid of and nothing to b shy abput , this is ur sexuall desire and every one have separate desires and ways of satisfactions which they are kept in the dark side cause ppl doesnt like to talk about although they have it , any way
as for ur case , i am not sure if u are lesbian or striaght that is really something u can find out , and in all the cases no one is judging u and thier is nothign wrong with being diffrent

b safe and always b happy for who u are
:)
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