basically im 13years old and i go to highschool, this guy who i really like and who i think about everysingle day is asking me..can i use a condom on ya? can i finger ya? can you suck me off? and aload of stuff like that and i really want to say yes to him but somehow im always saying no without an excuse, and i dont get why? ive had sex before but im not sure why i cant say yes to him. hes always flirting with me and sometimes he horrible to me i almost cry but then when he sees im upset he cheers me up and comforts me like he really cares. help me please? does he truely like me? should i grow some balls and just say yes when he asks me to do something? help me please im really confused
Hi Heathys,
Your answer is no. Leave it at that.
Of course he really cares about you, NOT. He just wants to get laid. How that you've had sex it's unusual for you to say no so he probably figures you're an easy lay.
If it sounds harsh, and it is, good.
You're too young to have sex - PERIOD. Sex is not just something to do, it is a commitment.
If you haven't figured it out you have a reputation already, and not a good one.
Hope it helps.
I agree with medic - dan, he is just trying to get you laid.
I had a lot of attention from a guy when I was your age and at school but I kept my head down and concentrated on school work till one day I said yes ok... In the school field after the last bell rang, still to this day I regret it and all that went thru my head at school was can I be pregnant then the boy told everyone how bad I was and I was bullied.
Think before you act really!! Good luck babe cxx
I had a lot of attention from a guy when I was your age and at school but I kept my head down and concentrated on school work till one day I said yes ok... In the school field after the last bell rang, still to this day I regret it and all that went thru my head at school was can I be pregnant then the boy told everyone how bad I was and I was bullied.
Think before you act really!! Good luck babe cxx
No!!!!! Sweetie if he's always asking stuff like that then that stuff is all he is after. Ive been there, done that. Dont fall for it. It's an all round bad idea!
OMG u had SeX b4 and ur 13. I just developed a c**p load of respect for you. Im 12 and wanted to lose my virginity at a young age, so basically i have got 1 more year left. Anyway, yeah. Respect. And you know what i would do with that as****e. Next time he asks you something like that kick him in the balls.
To be fair your to young to be having sex. When your older your going to regret not saving it for a time when you understand it more. It should be more special tbh
Was that for me? If it was, then i get that to some people sex is special and sentimental, but im just not one of those people. And besides who said i had sex, i want it but i have never had it before. Anyway if that wasnt for me, SORRY.