me n my friend had anal sex last night for like 10 minutes without a condom or lube n he came in my ass n then we started to clean up i didnt see any blood n 5 minutes later he room me home n I ran into the bathroom n I checked and saw a bit of blood I kept wiping in with wipes n water n tissues and It's stopped then a showered and I didn't see blood but while I was getting dressed I saw blood not alot just a little n i whipped it with wipes and its started to burn so I put cream on it to see if it would help n I was wondering can either of us get a std or HIV from this help me please Im hoping going for a HIV test tomorrow ?
If this was your first time for anal sex, it is possible you could have a little blood, particularly if you did not use any lube. And
yes, you could get std or HIV doing anal sex without a condom. You should be checked/tested as soon as possible.
Hi scared, you can get an STD including HIV from unprotected anal sex if your partner is infected. It couldn't hurt to get a full STD test done, not just HIV. That will either put your mind at rest or allow you to treat whatever comes up. That said, if he has always practiced safer sex in the past then your risk is reduced. and the fewer previous partners he had had the lower the risk. Still get tested anyway so you know what you are dealing with. And you have learned a very important lesson: lubes and condoms are essential. If its not on its not happening. And if you can't make him use a condom don't have sex with him. Your health is too important. chances are you'll be ok but you have made a wise choice in getting tested. All the best
either of us had HIV or stds before we did it and thank you for your answers does the full std testing cost anything I keep cleaning it n it hasn't been bleeding but I'm still really scared
Thr cost depends on the health system in the country you live in. Here in Australia testing can be accessed for free. I don't know about other health systems. Sorry. Mist countries have specialised sexual health clinics. If you have access to one they will discuss fees. If you have to go to your doctor then check with them first. Sorry u can't be any more specific. All the best