I started doing this in my teens also and never thought other people did it! I'm 31 now and still do it sometimes, but not as often, mostly because it is harder to control now after having a kid a few years ago and I'm more prone to leaking when I do hold it too long. Speaking of, I'm surprised more haven't admitted to holding it "too long" in all of this. I have lost count of the number of times I misjudged how much longer I could hold it and wound up with damp panties (most of the time), small wet spots on my pants (more often than I'd like to admit), or really misjudged and had a full out accidently and completely peed my pants (at least a few times in the last fifteen years). Ooops.
In spite of all that I still find it hard not to want to because it feels so good to do it. I just try to not take it to extremes any longer.
In spite of all that I still find it hard not to want to because it feels so good to do it. I just try to not take it to extremes any longer.
You are not a psycho. I have held my pee in too till the last possible second; and I get such a warm, exciting feeling. I've also leaked some pee out from holding too long; also.
What can u do? I've got like the same, I wanna cry, Is there a solution to this...
Hi, okay so I've noticed a lot of misconceptions and false info being spouted here. A full bladder does indeed increase your sexual drive; but it has nothing to do with blood flow or muscle contractions or anything of the like. It's simply because when your bladder wall is irritated (which is what happens during an infection or inflation or even when it's filled with urine) nervous signals are sent to and from your spinal cord that elicit this feeling of arousal. I'm a medical student and we recently learned this piece of info, so I assure you, you can take my word for it :D
I don't think so it's dangerous... cuz I've been doing this when I was small, like very small, now I'm 18 and I still do it, so I might be doing this since 10 years, but never had any problems!
Same for me, I've been doing it for about 2 years in a row having very strong orgasms. After partaking in this activity for a week straight ( I usually did this once a week) I noticed a short while later that I now have the bladder of an old lady and completely ruined my PC muscles. I have never had an orgasm as strong as I used to with holding my urine because I over worked my muscles down there. I have to pee every 10 minutes and its not even a lot of pee. I am now facing the problem of getting control of my bladder back and my tightness back as well. Proceed with caution.
Yea I agree. I'm 25 now and I've always had the feeling. I thought something was wrong with me. I don't hold my pee on purpose anymore when I have to go but now it happens very intensly after I pee and or if I haven't orgasmed after sex, and or at random times. Sometimes it just sneaks up on me w/o me knowing especially when I'm listening to intense music or hanging with my boyfriend. It does sometimes feel better than sex if he hasn't hit that special spot.
Something I did learn that during sex, when he's inside me, if he pressed gently on the lowest part of my stomach and doesn't move I feel the same feeling and it drives me wildly crazy.
I want to know if there is a name for it? Or another way to exerience it because masterbating doesn't do it for me whether it's vaginal or cliteral. I have to have a partner who knows what he's doing for the most part. But again it's not the same as when I have to pee and have to hold it, or after I pee and the feeling happens during peeing or lingers after.
Something I did learn that during sex, when he's inside me, if he pressed gently on the lowest part of my stomach and doesn't move I feel the same feeling and it drives me wildly crazy.
I want to know if there is a name for it? Or another way to exerience it because masterbating doesn't do it for me whether it's vaginal or cliteral. I have to have a partner who knows what he's doing for the most part. But again it's not the same as when I have to pee and have to hold it, or after I pee and the feeling happens during peeing or lingers after.
I didn't read the entire thread, but something I've noticed is when I'm almost at the point where I have to pee (or leak) if I use my vibrator on my clit while on the toilet it is incredible... and when I'm aroused I tend to pee more frequently.
I'm among the many who are relieved to know they aren't the only one. I've experienced this since high school and now I'm nearly forty. I've never intentionally held my pee in for a long period of time, it's usually because I'm either at work and have few bathroom breaks or I'm too engrossed in what I'm doing. There have been times that I have woken up and had to use the bathroom and just lay there for a little while enjoying the feeling, just sort of tucking myself into a ball and grinding my hips into nothing, just the clenching and releasing of muscles, feels pretty good.
I have been doing this for 2 years. Will this affect my future like having children or sicknesses? Are there any cures? I told my mom I probably have UTI and I don't know if that will solve my problem.
I'm a girl and I do that and It feels like I'm having sex
I'm a 14 year old girl and for about two years I've had this happening to me as well. I looked it up because its kind of embarrassing when my teacher won't let me go to the restroom at school and I'm squirming in my chair. I even told a friend and she gave it a nickname. She called it a "peegasm".
I agree with you, it can be harmful in the future from holding. I don't feel comfortable even with a slightly full bladder and I go to the bathroom often. I find peeing really disgusting but i know everyone does it, it just dosent make me less disgusted.
it can give you a uti or a bladder infection
I'm a 16 yo girl and i am so glad to read that other ppl do this as well. I have it to the point where i get orgasms and i sometimes even wet my bed because of the intensity of them. I know it's dangerous to hold it for too long but even if i tell myself to stop it i just can't because it feels too good.